During my undergraduate years, he devoted himself to the application for studying abroad, while I hung out in various clubs and participated in various activities every day. We are completely different from each other.
After graduation, he went to New Haven to study neurology, and I stayed in the familiar garden to study law.
I don't know when we became friends on Renren. The first time I saw his head, I was fascinated and thought, "How can there be such a handsome guy in Tsinghua?" But at that time, we didn't have any communication on the Internet.
By chance, I went to Newvillage to study, and wandered around the bookstore on a whim in the afternoon. I met him who also wandered around the bookstore on a whim, so that we really got to know each other. @ Wei Ziting
6. In the more than one month after the encounter in Newvillage, we only met twice, and each time we simply ate the Yale canteen.
Before leaving the new village, he took me and two friends @ Deng Jingzhi @ Gao Jian to visit Dongyan near his home. We climbed to the top of the mountain on foot at sunset, not only enjoying the beautiful scenery of the whole village in New Haven, but also meeting percussion lovers and having a good time. I had a good chat with my friend along the way, but I have nothing in common with him.
8. Later, when I returned to China, I kept in intermittent contact with him on the Internet for a long time.
9. Unconsciously, we gradually met online. Every time I see the dot in front of Zhang Zhihao turn green on Gtalk, I feel very excited.
10. Suddenly one day, he said that he wanted to visit me in Beijing when he returned to China during the Christmas holiday. Therefore, during his five days back in Beijing, he spent 90% of his time with me except for rest. We went to Guo Bo together, watched a drama and a New Year's movie party @ Zhou Zainan @ Li Xuewen, and had several meals, with an average duration of 4 hours. This is the first time in my life that I spent so much time with people other than my parents in a few days.
1 1. During his stay in Beijing, he came to see me change. At the long and boring conference for several hours, the audience slept and played with their mobile phones. Only when he listened attentively to all the links and commented on every detail with me after the meeting, did I sit up and take notice of the academic performance of this "single-minded sage book"
12. On the first night of the new year, after several days of continuous getting along, we have already felt the subtle changes between us. From McDonald's outside Dongzhimen, we specially took the 13 line around Wudaokou, and then walked all the way from Kawa Town to the dormitory in the snow and ice. We all have endless topics.
13. At McDonald's, he was silent for a while and then said, "Do you want us to try it and see if it works in different places?" . Although it is a very happy thing to be confessed by someone I like, I never dared to think that I would be involved in a long-distance relationship, let alone not knowing or understanding each other. Surprise, joy, worry, confusion … My first reaction was to shake my head. After revealing my real thoughts to him, we decided to put this issue on hold for the time being and pay more attention to mutual understanding.
14. 12 The end of February is the coldest time of the year in Beijing, but he always wears a thin woolen coat. I asked him why, and he said, "Although I brought a down jacket, I'm afraid it won't look good on you and you don't like it." .
15. During the five days we spent together in Beijing, he didn't even touch my hand, and was praised as an "incredible miracle" by my friends. My affection for this rational, cautious and casual person doubled.
16. After he returned to America from Beijing, when we were still friends, he confided to the people around him that he was gone.
17. We have been in touch with each other on the Internet since then. In the first Skype video, he deliberately wore a suit with my highest evaluation, which looked serious and cute.
More than two months later, I went to Boston for a meeting. He comes to see me by Megabus for three hours every week, and Boston South Station records our joys and sorrows again and again.
19. The first day we met in Boston happened to be the coldest and windiest day in Boston during that time. In order to find a warm place to chat, we started a silly subway trip. From the red line to the green line, we got on and off at will and took several subway trips.
On the weekend before Valentine's Day, he drove me to Cape Cod to see the sea in winter. It was dusk when we arrived at truro Lighthouse. Although the strong wind at the seaside makes people tremble, the beautiful and romantic picture still makes us linger.
2 1. Two months and one month of close contact in a foreign country have deepened our understanding of each other. He wrote an affectionate letter, read it to me, and we were formally together.
22. He grew up in Guangzhou. His father is from Shanghai and his mother is from Guangzhou, which makes him combine all the advantages of Shanghai men and Guangzhou men. He is particularly hardworking, virtuous, good-natured and will take care of people.
23. During my stay in Boston, he specially brought a lot of Cantonese food ingredients to my brother and sister's house and cooked a big meal for everyone to show his gratitude. This is very noble.
Before returning to China, he invited me to his home and carefully prepared Cantonese dishes such as "Roast Chicken with Ginger Onions" and "Coconut Black Chicken Soup" for me to eat. When he wore an apron and performed opening coconuts with an axe, his clumsy appearance made me feel both funny and moved.
25. When he sent me to the security checkpoint at Logan Airport in Boston, he gave me a letter, and I left a card on his desk before I left his home. This kind of heart made us deeply moved when we parted at the airport, and also made us look at each other's handwriting countless times.
26. When we were in New Orleans, he met Americans twice in an hour. First, when I was having lunch at Hala Casino, I couldn't enter the casino because I forgot my passport. So he asked me to wait in the air-conditioned casino lobby and braved the high temperature for more than 20 minutes to get my passport back and forth from the hotel. This was seen by the black aunt who was verified at the door and always praised him for hurting me. Second, in the restaurant, my insole is uncomfortable. Without saying anything, he immediately squatted down to repair my insole, and was exclaimed by the white uncle behind us, "Hero!"
27. Before I arrived in California, he began to find classmates to help me arrange accommodation, and then sent me to California to carry luggage, apply for various cards, buy various things, clean the room, meet friends, eat delicious food and have fun, which saved me a lot of trouble. This was seen by his friends, who described him as a "filial boyfriend of 24 years old".
28. He is low-key and modest. Not long after we met, we talked about education in Guangdong. When I questioned the gold content of Guangdong's "900 points" and "No.1 scholar", he just smiled. It was not until a long time later that I happened to find out that he was one of them. @ Liu Lijun
29. We have a lot in common, for example, our ideas often coincide, such as loving music, traveling, eating fish, preferring purple and blue …
30. He is conservative and has strong self-control. He is consistent with me in key values and meets my conceptual requirements for boyfriends and husbands, which I especially cherish. His undivided attention to me made me feel safe.
3 1. He said he would love me as much as his daughter and wife, and in fact he did the same.
He will try his best to satisfy all my hobbies. I will drive for hours to listen to the Phantom of the Opera on Broadway, the symphony concert at Carnegie Hall and the Malimba concert at Newport Music Festival.
33. His psychological quality is excellent. On the way from the Grand Canyon to Las Vegas, we were caught in a heavy rain. His wheel suddenly lost control, broke through the isolation belt and drove to the opposite highway. Facing the oncoming truck, my brain screamed with fear, but he turned the steering wheel without changing color at the critical moment, and finally avoided the tragedy.
34. In a chat, he solemnly made a wish that he would make a request to his future children, hoping that we could hug each other and sleep in the ground in a hundred years, which deeply moved me.
35. He will be nice to me quietly, without asking for anything in return. For example, he bought me expensive glasses, and for fear that I knew, he actually asked the salesman to open a forged cheap receipt.
36. His mind is delicate, nostalgic and emotional. Every concert we listened to together, the opera program, and even the wrapping paper I gave him, he would keep it intact.
37. He has a strong sense of camera. We often shoot all kinds of DV at any time as souvenirs of good memories.
38. The wall of his bedroom is covered with all kinds of photos of us.
He is homesick and clingy, and keeps in touch with his parents every day. In the days abroad, every weekend, our Skype can run for 48 hours without interruption.
40. As a famous wooden Capricorn er, he tried his best to create all kinds of romance and surprises. For example, he flew back to Beijing without telling his boss to skip class on my birthday.
4 1. He is not a man without temper, but he tries to be patient with me and tolerate all kinds of unprovoked provocations. He even took the initiative to put down his posture to make me happy after every contradiction, and called me again and again when I hung up willfully until reconciliation.
42. His endurance is amazing. He records an episode of Cantonese class for me every day, changes various sentences that can attract me, and matches it with pleasant background music. Every weekend, there are various "special programs", including his Cantonese songs, various Cantonese dubbing videos and so on.
43. He is good at cooking all kinds of Cantonese dishes and soups. He can cook for me for 1 month, and he enjoys cooking. His specialties are steamed fish, fish with pickled vegetables, salted chicken, cumin roasted lamb chops, garlic-flavored ribs and so on. He will also deliberately learn to cook my favorite dishes, and even gradually change his taste of Cantonese food, such as practicing "dry fried beans" for three times and five times, and cooking them for me after learning.
He is always used to walking outside me, holding my hand tightly wherever he goes, and changing his position left and right when crossing the road.
45. I often catch a cold when I get dressed. As a direct result, he often shivers with cold.
46. He will bring me foot washing water, thinking that I enjoy washing my feet.
47. He often visits my Renren website at 9: 26 to "express his thoughts".
48. The first bunch of flowers he sent me was in T2 Terminal of Capital Airport. When he came out with the box, he still had a bunch of pink roses in his hand, which surprised me.
49. Traveling with him is very comfortable. He basically takes pictures, carries bags, drives cars, and does all kinds of chores. I just laugh.
50. When I don't reply to his message, he will call me anxiously to "harass" me, and he will tell me wherever he goes, so as not to worry me.
5 1. When making a phone call, we always ask the other party to hang up first, and finally we will take who has something important to leave as the standard.
52. I am a lazy person. He will help me remember a lot of things and remind me from time to time. He will wash my clothes, pack my bags and do all kinds of things that I am too lazy to do.
He is willing to introduce me to his classmates and friends, and never hides his attachment to me in front of them. @ Tang Chenxiang @ Wang Ning @ Zhang Xue @ Jin Orange @ Zhao Chen @ Lu Jin @ Li Daliang @ Jin Yan Hui always takes care of me when he takes me to various Guangdong homecoming meetings, and patiently translates various Cantonese for me.
54. He respects my privacy and space, never rummages through my mobile phone, and even consciously evades me when I send text messages and check emails.
55. The most he said to me was "I'm always with you".
56. He will be a warm and good father. In the evening of Beijing time, he would read to me and tell stories through Skype, and sing the Cantonese lullaby "Moonlight" in different languages until I fell asleep unconsciously.
57. He loves Jin Xiaoha very much and is committed to being Jin Xiaoha's brother-in-law. In order to win Jin Xiaoha's love, he will spend a lot of time massaging Jin Xiaoha, and has successfully become Jin Xiaoha's royal masseur.
58. He is an atypical science and engineering man. In addition to the meticulous and rational thinking left by nature, he is also full of literary feelings. He likes writing articles, appreciating calligraphy and painting, and listening to symphonies, which is full of life interest.
He was bullied a lot in kindergarten when he was a child, and I was a bully in kindergarten, which directly led to his being bullied by me all the time.
60. He is a little superstitious and never allows me to say the words "separation" and "separation". If I make a joke, he will gently scratch my nose in protest.
6 1. He is a conservative and prudent man, and he is very reliable in doing things. It would be reassuring to give him a job.
62. He is the only straight man in their lab.
63. He is a person with strong learning ability. He can get rid of any environmental interference and concentrate on finishing his work efficiently, which has always left me behind.
64. He studied music since he was a child. Under my influence, he fell in love with Eastern European symphonies and spent a lot of money to collect hundreds of CDs of Eastern European classical music. One of our favorite songs is Borowitz in Borodin's King Igor.
He likes eating hawthorn and all foods related to hawthorn very much, but he didn't know about "fruit tea", a classic hawthorn drink that northerners often drink, until he met me.
66. He has a pair of big eyes with single eyelids and likes to rub my cheek with long eyelashes.
Without a map, he is completely blind. Even when he takes me to play near his home, he still gets lost, and he often doesn't recognize the road he has walked many times on weekdays, which makes me speechless and even angry with him more than once.
68. He is my "pseudo-scientific corrector", which will break my various pseudo-scientific health preserving theories as a "neuroscientist", such as drinking too much milk is easy to cause cancer, eating more alkaline food can prevent cancer and so on.
He likes all kinds of small animals, especially Labrador. He has always longed for a Labrador or a bulldog, and he is also looking forward to seeing giraffes with long eyelashes in Kenya.
70. He doesn't smoke, drink, be uncivilized, gamble or go whoring, which is the insulator of all kinds of bad hobbies. He likes to be clean, his life is very organized, and he always smells of soap.
7 1. His Mandarin has no Cantonese accent at all, and he can't recognize a southerner.
72. He likes being photographed, and he is very photogenic.
73. When he smiles, he will wear dimples and laugh lines, which makes people feel very loving and warm.
He saw a red rope tied to my left wrist and urged me to get one for myself, and happily took it as my symbol.
75. My photo and the photo of the two of us were placed in a conspicuous position in his wallet. Whenever he withdraws money from his wallet, this photo is easily seen by others.
76. He likes to wear the clothes I bought for him best, and he will pick them out on important occasions or when he wants to take pictures.
77. His beard grows very fast. I like to touch the stubble on his chin best.
78. He is taller than me 12cm. Although neither of us is tall, such a height difference is particularly suitable.
79. He is sometimes very rustic. For example, he has been driving for several years and doesn't even know that the seat in the car can be put down.
He has a strong language ability, and one of his dreams is to become a professor. When he was a teaching assistant at Yale, he was very popular with students, and some even contacted him and wanted to sit in on his classes. Among his students, there is also the former Argentine Minister of Economy and Finance.
8 1. His English is very good, especially his vocabulary is large. He is a great god in all kinds of English tests, but his accent has a strange and strong local flavor of northern China.
82. He has been practicing calligraphy since childhood, and he writes beautifully in both Chinese and English.
83. He likes to write to me. Today, with the development of Internet, he still writes to me from America.
84. He is well-read and well informed. He knows every book or news I mentioned, and I have never even heard of some books he has read.
He is good at drawing children's pictures. He once drew me a picture book called The Story of Husky and Polar Bear.
86. He is most afraid of burping. Once he starts, it's hard to finish. The most exaggerated thing is that he has been burping for more than half an hour after dinner.
87. He cares about his image, especially his hairstyle. Every time he sees me, he will arrange to go to the barber shop for a haircut to keep his hair length in the best condition.
88. He likes learning Beijing dialect, especially Hua Er, and is determined to be a bad old man in Beijing in the future.
89. He is crazy about civil aircraft, and knows the model and characteristics of the aircraft we take every time like the back of his hand.
90. He is smart most of the time, but occasionally he makes two mistakes, such as rushing up the reverse escalator or playing with a zombie who often kills me and is scolded by me.
9 1.20 12 is the year in which we traveled to and from China and the United States the most. We have taken all the planes of China-US airlines, such as Air China, China Eastern Airlines, Cathay Pacific, AA and Delta, and made great contributions to the civil aviation industry.
92. During this year, we visited many cities together, including Beijing, Boston, New Haven, new york, Vancouver, Langfang, Chengde, Zhoushan, Ningbo, Shaoxing, Huzhou, Hangzhou, Guangzhou, Kaiping, Pyongyang, Nanpu, Kaesong, Panmunjom, Xingang, bar harbor, Hartford, Dallas, Las Vegas, Minneapolis and so on.
93. He holds a high scholarship in America, and he is good at housekeeping. In addition to all kinds of daily expenses, he also saved a lot of savings. Not long ago, however, he spent more than two years of savings and bought me a small ring to wear on his hand for life.
94. His first marriage proposal was at the top of Dongyan Mountain in Xincun Village. The sun is shining and the maple leaves are red.
95. His second marriage proposal was in lover's slope in Tsinghua campus. In the afternoon, the warm sunshine shines on the snow, which makes people feel very warm.
96. His third proposal was on the blue beach in San Diego. The sunset that day was so beautiful that people wanted to cry. @ Tan Zhihong
97. Many people don't understand why I have always been low-key emotionally and suddenly become high-profile. In the days together, he took care of me wholeheartedly. In my eyes, he belongs to a smart and handsome man who is very kind to me, so he is precious.
98. His name is Zhang Zhihao.
99. Today is his birthday. I wish him a happy birthday.
100. He will be my lifelong companion, and I hope to spend every birthday with him in the future.
10 1. Our time together is inseparable from our parents' selfless support in spirit and material. Thanks to our parents @ Zhang Si @ Zhang Xia.
102. Thanks to the friends above, who witnessed our wonderful moment together.
103. Emotional experiences, whether good or bad, pain or happiness, are extremely valuable wealth. Thanks to the boys I met in recent years, you helped me grow up, changed me from a young and headstrong little girl to a grateful and contented person, and taught me to cherish real happiness when it appeared. I also thank the girls who have been with him for a while, and thank you for bringing me this kind of him.