"In this world, the more you seek fame, the less fame you will get, and the more you seek freedom, the less freedom you will have."

Tang Jing said this in the TV series "The First Half of My Life". When saying this, for some reason, I felt that she was not only accusing Ling Ling, but also herself.

A sense of sadness secretly came from my back. I sympathized with Tang Jing and persisted in my love for her for ten years. Although she is a strong woman, she seems to be invulnerable and invincible.

But don’t forget, she is a woman first and then a strong woman in the workplace.

Tang Jing is the character I sympathize with most in this drama. No matter in the workplace or in life, she can't be disdainful.

She is outstanding at work and is the most successful business elite in the most luxurious and top-notch office building in Shanghai. She has worked a thousand times harder than ordinary people in exchange for a worry-free material life.

Regarding work and love, her attitude is very independent, very strong, and very sad. Like a thin ice blade, it shines with colorful light in the sun, but it does not detract from the reality that it is about to hurt itself.

Yi Shu's "Xi Bao" says that either you have a lot of money, or you have a lot of love.

When she was chatting with Luo Zijun, she brought up this very classic sentence from Yi Shu's work. This sentence is basically her attitude towards life. If there is no money, then I must have perfect love. If there is no love, I must at least have more money than others.

She is not willing to lose. So, she is very tired.

A polyp grew in her stomach, which made her completely understand that she should slow down her pace of life and experience life more. Friends are important and health is important. In life, don't be too busy.

But this outlook on life after rebirth did not last long. At the beginning, she wanted to marry He Han, and after struggling with this man for ten years, she was actually very clear-headed. In the absence of a better substitute, everyone would accept the current "almost". She thought it was fine now and they should give each other an explanation.

"If everything goes just right, then I don't know when."

She never thought in her wildest dreams that God is the best at destroying cards. This time, it's my boyfriend and my best girlfriend.

I am an emotional person. When watching TV series, I will feel the pain and joy along with the characters in it, and truly put myself in it. Even if you are not very optimistic about this character, you will be overjoyed or sad in the emotions that it should have. Then, I just watched Tang Jing's psychological ups and downs, and I was filled with emotion all the way.

Both are unfortunate women. After all, Luo Zijun has Chen Junsheng in the first half of his life and He Han in the second half of his life. And Tang Jing, in this life, may only be able to live with her own persistence.

Reminds me of what He Han said to Tang Jing: "No matter when you want to drink, whether you encounter trouble and need to be solved, or just hang out with nothing to do, as long as you call I, let alone Hong Kong, even Antarctica, I will fly over to find you immediately.”

I was so touched when I heard this sentence. Such a relationship cannot be established overnight. Just like the icebergs in Antarctica, they must have experienced years of bitter cold.

However, He Han once said this: She (Tang Jing) is more like a work of mine. You know, I have done countless good cases, but all of them, everything, It can’t be called my most proud work. My most proud work is Tang Jing. Tell me whether I love her or not. There are many smart, virtuous and good wives, but there is only one Tang Jing, and I hope she can be better and more perfect!

After listening, the tide in my heart went out with a "swish". These words actually explain the reason. The reason is sown very early and will bear the final fruit. Her and his goals are actually "too perfect."

I know that after ten years of wandering, this feeling has transformed into a habit, and even a deeper self-proof.

Or as Chen Junsheng said, that is ten years of responsibility. That's why I got a bright engagement ring.

When He Han left Bianti, he could have signed a contract with Kaman, but in order for Tang Jing to stay in the company better, he gave up this opportunity. At that time, I was thinking that if Tang Jing could relax a little, stop staring at the self-righteous "sliver of hope", and think about the person opposite him when he discovered a little "handle" about He Han, maybe their love would be complete. It will be sooner.

But no. A person's character will trap him tightly.

Tang Jing will regard He Han as an obligatory enemy for his career, while Luo Zijun will give up his job for He Han's career. As an audience, we will be enlightened while watching.

What man doesn’t like a woman who properly compromises for herself. But He Han and Tang Jing were so similar. One was a teacher, but the other was no longer under his control.

In Luo Zijun's eyes, every word He Han said was her golden rule. Men need women to look up to them, and Tang Jing obviously can't give her this kind of attitude.

Sometimes, it’s appropriate to be a little softer. It means letting others go, but also letting yourself go.