Nowadays, many men are strict with their wives, and they don’t know whether it is good or bad to be strict with their wives. So what kind of men are easy to be strict with their wives? What are the characteristics of men who are strict with their wives? The following Let’s take a look.

What kind of man is likely to be strict with his wife?

1. A man who talks a lot, is attentive, and has a mother-in-law personality

As the saying goes: Too much talk leads to defeat. In fact, It's the same thing in marriage. If a man talks too much, he will annoy women. As far as I know, there are not many women in the world who like a man's talkativeness. On the other hand, men themselves will also make some mistakes and give excuses to their wives because they talk too much. In this situation, it will be very easy to create a situation where the wife is strong and the husband is weak. In addition, from the perspective of the psychological needs of such men, they will always subconsciously regard the silence between two people as awkwardness, and will always try to break the "deadlock" by taking the initiative to speak and looking for something to say when they have nothing to say. In fact, they are wrong. Silence in many cases can make a man's heart richer, his image more stable, and his marriage healthier.

2. Men without any skills or stable financial resources

If a man does not have any skills or stable financial resources, he is probably like a fish without water. Both their family and living conditions are very worrying. Society is so cruel and realistic. In Chinese tradition, a man must have a career, have financial ability, and be a nail when spitting. This concept has been deeply ingrained. As a man, you should never expect your wife to be tolerant of you in this regard for any reason. If this goes on for a long time, you may not even be able to think highly of yourself!

3. A man who cannot take care of himself and has grown up with the pampering of his family

China’s family planning system has dozens of In the years, and the traditional preference for boys over girls, the society has created many boys who cannot take care of themselves and grow up in the pampering of their families. Now, they have all grown up, they are both husbands and fathers, and they are living the lives of their own small families. At this time, neither the wife nor the children will treat them like their parents, let alone let her do everything like her elder sister. In this family, he is the pillar, and he has to support him even if he cannot support him. So the problem arises, few women can endure a man's inability to take care of himself for a long time.

4. A man who has no principles in doing things and has a very good character

This is not to be alarmist. If a man has no principles, he is very sad. This sadness will run through his family and family. Career, and life in general. Therefore, as a man, you can have a good character, but you must not be without principles and your own bottom line. This principle includes treating his wife and children. On this balance of destiny, a man cannot give in even one step. To give in is to atone for his sins and to be even more irresponsible to his family.

5. A man who has certain knowledge and knows how to be tolerant

In fact, this kind of man is different from the previous four. A knowledgeable and tolerant man, although he often appears to be henpecked in front of outsiders. However, this kind of fear is not really fear, but a kind of love and a kind of wisdom. He knows his wife better than anyone else, and he can control his woman at the most critical moment better than anyone else. He and his wife are not at the same level or level. He is like a father looking at his daughter's naughty and naughty ways.

Characteristics of a man’s strict control over his wife

1. Obey orders, and his wife’s words are imperial edicts

Let’s talk about the mystery behind treating his wife’s words as edicts. It's big. Dad’s ears understand. It’s trivial matters. Be generous and let women make the decision. Don’t be petty and mess with big plans. If it’s a “national event”, huh, even if you don’t come to her, she will come to your door to make your decision. , this matter of building a plank road to cross Chencang secretly will not let "Baba'er" take all the glory.

2. Hand over your monthly salary to your wife in full

Of course, I have to say it secretly, my dad is cunning. Although I handed over my salary in full, but then Bonuses and benefits, etc., but they are also secretly hidden - this is a matter of being a bitch and setting up a memorial arch, but he has taken advantage of it!

3. All household chores are covered

When it comes to doing housework, the "wife-controller" enjoys it. Look, the music is playing, the tunes are humming, the furniture is being wiped, and the floor is being mopped. It's such a pleasant experience that I wouldn't exchange it for a god as dirty as a tacky plum.

Going home from get off work every day, washing two pieces of clothes, frying two plates of side dishes, changing the way of life, and regulating the tense nerves, is not a pleasure.

4. My wife is God, and I should listen to my wife in all matters big and small.

Being afraid of my wife helped me get rid of my bad habits, and it also made me keep advancing with the times. My wife forced me to take a walk after meals, which made me have the habit of exercising; she forced me to learn English, so that my professional title was finally recognized; she forced me to cook, which greatly improved my cooking skills; she forced me to persevere. Reading and writing helped me finally publish a few articles on dried tofu. She forced me not to be content with the status quo, so I finally moved to a company with more promising prospects.

What to do if a husband and wife are not in harmony

No matter what the reason is for this situation to happen, you should calm down and talk about it, and share your inner thoughts. This is very important, after all, the most effective and fastest way to understand the other party when communicating. If possible, both parties should make a self-examination and stop pursuing who is right and who is wrong. It is not important. As long as both of them know that the other person's heart is for each other, that will be fine. After all, they were looking into each other's eyes in the first place. Talk about it for a lifetime. However, if there is so-called physical betrayal or mental cheating on one party, then it is necessary to pursue the most fundamental necessity that led to the incident. No one will abandon the other party and find a new love without reason. There is a problem, but some people just don't notice it, but if it is a mental affair, unless the other party is determined and has no feelings, or they think it is irreversible, then the long-term pain is worse than the short-term pain.

Signs of marriage crisis

1. Particularly keen on social activities

Both people are busy attending various dances or gatherings among friends to avoid Intimate human contact. When the two of them were alone at home, they always left the TV on and didn't want to talk much.

2. I am ashamed to put a photo of the two of you together on the table

There is no photo of you together in the room, and even if there is, it is just a pile of debris under the bed. inside, covered with dust. At this time, you need to reflect on it.

3. The clothes worn on a date no longer fit

A study in the United States revealed that among 2,500 interviewed women who claimed that their marital relationships were disharmonious and unhappy, In the 10 years after marriage, the average person gains 54 pounds. Richard, the psychologist who conducted the survey, said: “For some women, weight gain can increase their dominance and sense of achievement in the family, while for other women, it can protect themselves from If you are subject to unnecessary sexual harassment, of course your husband's interest in her will be greatly reduced.