1. Belief in life

1. Don't stop until you reach your goal

Hou Baolin, a language master, has only been in primary school for three years. Because of his diligence and eagerness to learn, his artistic level has reached perfection and he has become a famous language expert. On one occasion, in order to buy a Ming Dynasty joke book "Ridiculous Waves" that he wanted to buy, he went to all the old book stalls in Beijing and failed. Later, he learned that Beijing Library had this book. It was winter, and he braved the strong wind and heavy snow and ran to the library to copy books for 18 days in a row. A 1,-word book was finally copied by him. It is with the strong perseverance of "Don't give up until you reach your goal" that Hou Baolin became a master of crosstalk.

Analysis: Hou Baolin, a linguist, tells us this truth with his actions: If you want to achieve something, you must be diligent and studious, and you must persevere.

★ Read a hundred times, and you will see what you mean. (Jin Chenshou's History of the Three Kingdoms. Wei Shu)

★ Diligent and diligent, lacking in fun. (Tang Hanyu's "A Solution to Learning")

★ There is a lack of diligence in reading, but it is empty in the stomach. (Tang Hanyu's Fu Shu Cheng Nan)

★ Perseverance makes a stone engrave. (Xun Kuang's "Xun Zi. Encouraging Learning" in the Warring States Period)

★ One out of ten things in the world are abandoned by difficulties, and nine out of ten are abandoned by laziness. (Yan Family Instructions by Yan Zhitui in the Northern and Southern Dynasties)

Topic: "Success comes from diligence" and "Learning makes a genius"

2. Legless flying general

During the Soviet Patriotic War, Alexei? Melesier's big plane was shot down. He crawled for 18 days and nights with his legs injured and frozen, and finally reached his position together. After his legs were amputated, he exercised and flew a fighter again. He attaches great importance to people's enthusiasm for sports, which is indispensable to health and mental state. He likes sports, boating, playing football and being a goalkeeper since childhood. He worked hard every morning after being grounded. Take a cold bath every morning to prevent colds.

Analysis: It's absolutely a miracle for a person who returned to the cab after amputation of both legs. Miracles need a support point, and that is perseverance.

★ Therefore, the heaven will assign a great responsibility to the Sri Lankan people, and they must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies and skin, and do whatever they do, so be patient and gain what they can't do. -Mencius

★ Suffering and hardship is the highest school to temper personality. -Liang Qichao

★ Unfortunately, it is the stepping stone of genius, the baptism water of believers, the priceless treasure of capable people and the bottomless abyss of the weak. -Balzac

★ One of the great advantages of outstanding people is their perseverance in unfavorable and difficult encounters. -Beethoven

★ It is clear that the future does not belong to those who are hesitant, but to those who, once decided, will persevere and never give up. -Roman Roland

Topic: "Real Disability" and "Perseverance"

3. One success is enough

The following is a resume of a person's life: at the age of 5, his father died; at the age of 14, he dropped out of school and began to wander; at the age of 16, he lied about his age and joined the army, and the military life was not satisfactory everywhere; At the age of 18, he married a daughter-in-law, but after only a few months, the daughter-in-law sold all his property and fled back to her family. He studied law by correspondence, but soon gave up; Later, he sold insurance, tires, a ferry and a gas station, but all failed.

In middle age, he became a chef and bottle washer in a restaurant, but the restaurant was demolished because the government built a road, and he lost his job again. Time flies, and a lifetime has passed, and he still has nothing. At the age of 65, the postman sent him his first social insurance check, and he used the $15 insurance money to start his own brand-new business. At the age of 88, his career finally achieved great success. He is the founder of KFC-Harend? Sandoz!

analysis: you have been pursuing all your life, and you will succeed if you have one chance; If you give up your pursuit, no matter how many opportunities you have, you won't succeed.

Topic: "Frustration is a fortune" and "Dilemma and Success"

4. Inspiration from Haier

In the eyes of many Chinese people, Haier, a successful enterprise, is already very powerful and remarkable. However, a reporter who followed Haier for many years said that Haier's "sense of hardship" was the strongest among the many enterprises he came into contact with. Zhang Ruimin, CEO of Haier Group, often says: "Treading on thin ice with trepidation." An enterprise with an average annual growth rate of 81.6% in 16 years and an annual sales income of over 4 billion yuan, which is well-known not only at home but also abroad, can have such awareness, which is worthy of our deep thinking. According to Zhang Ruimin, their strategy of marching into China is very simple? Winner takes all. Their goal is not to leave you any market or territory. Needless to say, many of our enterprises, not to mention weak enterprises, are outstanding people like Haier. Compared with the world's top 5 companies, there is still a gap, and they dare not relax and slack off. Face up to the seriousness of the challenge realistically, fully estimate the strength and difficulty of competitors, think about the worst and work hard for the best, which will be more beneficial and less harmful.

Analysis: "You are treading on thin ice with trepidation." Haier's success tells us that if you don't have a sense of urgency and don't work hard, you will be doomed.

★ After the success of luxury, happiness will help you to know both dangers and dangers-Wang Anshi

★ Being safe without forgetting danger, surviving without forgetting death, and managing without forgetting chaos-The Book of Changes

★ People who have no long-term worries will have near worries. -The Analects of Confucius

★ Worry and fatigue can rejuvenate the country, and leisure can lead to death-Ouyang Xiu

★ Be prepared for danger in times of peace, and refrain from extravagance and frugality-Wei Zhi's Ten Thoughts on admonishing Taizong

Topic: "Worry consciousness" and "Know yourself and know yourself"

5. Prepare for failure

In the United States and Iraq. The American troops who suffered from street fighting in Mogadishu dare not take it lightly. They are practicing hard how to win the battle and how to be a prisoner after losing the battle. The name of the prisoner of war training course is "over-pressure indoctrination", which includes four major subjects-survival in the wild, hiding and escaping, active resistance, and life-saving. Training is carried out in an almost cruel way, but it is necessary. It can improve people's physical and psychological endurance, and once they are in a desperate situation, they can cope with it calmly.

analysis: "everything is done in advance, and it will be abolished if it is not planned." Countless facts show that whoever can prepare for failure can save the day and turn defeat into victory.

topic: "sense of hardship" and "factors of success"

2. Personality endowment

1. Weaknesses

During World War II, Bernie, a senior instructor of the US Army's counterintelligence team? Federman was unfortunately captured by the German army during a battlefield duty. In view of Federman's special status, German interrogators used various means to extract the needed information from his mouth: torture and nailing, psychological pressure, playing tricks and giving preferential treatment. However, it didn't work, so that the German interrogator had no choice but to tunnel: Federman would probably like us to torment him, so as to give him a chance to become a hero. But this iron-clad tough guy was finally betrayed-it was his own weakness that betrayed him.

It turns out that the Germans later sent him to a cadre school in Germany to train leading spies, and asked him to accompany an instructor to class every day. The instructor doesn't know whether it is intentional or not, and everything he tells the students is mostly wrong. At first, Federman tried to endure, sneer at it. One day, he couldn't bear it, so he couldn't help criticizing the Germans, talking about the inside story of some works of the American and British institutions, and giving some suggestions to the Germans on how to figure out the communication network. Naturally, these are exactly what the Germans want to know.

Federman's tragedy lies in his inviolable sense of professional sacredness and his strong professionalism. The Germans took advantage of this, trying to get what they wanted, but luring it first, which made him "temporarily itch" and fell into the trap of the other side in safeguarding his professional dignity.

Analysis: Federman's sense of professional sacredness and strong professionalism are advantages, but the advantages sometimes become the weaknesses of others' attacks. It is precisely by grasping this point that the Germans have achieved their goals.

★ When employing people, they should learn from their strengths and exploit their weaknesses; Teach people, grow up, and get rid of people's shortcomings (clear? Wei Yuan)

★ If you blame it for its difficulty, it will be easy for you to do it without effort; Make up for its shortcomings, and its elders will succeed without success-(Zi Zhi Tong Jian)

★ Don't cover up the great good with small evils, and don't abandon the long one with many shortcomings (Song? Zhu Xi)

★ Small goodness is not enough to cover up many evils, and small faults are not enough to hinder great beauty

★ Learn from others' strengths and make up for their own shortcomings

Topic: "Strengths and weaknesses" and "The greatest enemy is yourself"

2. Being stuck in a prison, keeping your will

Nicolo? Paganini is an Italian violinist and composer, who is called "the violinist trained on the solo piano".

his artistic path is bumpy. He was born in a small businessman's family. It is said that he has been in prison for 2 years for political crimes. But even in prison, he never lost heart, but insisted on studying in prison. By the window of the prison, he practiced hard with a violin with only one string left, and for decades, he finally reached a superb position in playing skills. His creation and performance are unrestrained and full of passion, which has a great influence on contemporary romantic composers.

Analysis: Being trapped in prison and finally becoming a talent requires strong faith and perseverance on the one hand, and a desire for life and persistence in art on the other.

topic: "never give up" and "faith and perseverance"

3. Only the top student has no top scholar.

Lu Jiaxi is a famous chemist in China. In the 193s, he was a math teacher in long summer Middle School, Fujian Province. At that time, a student deliberately embarrassed Lu Jiaxi with a math problem published in a foreign magazine for a reward, but he didn't mind. He just said, "I'll keep it and see if I can solve it." After more than a day of precise calculation, Lu Jiaxi answered the question. He introduced the method and concrete process of solving the problem to the student in detail, and the student admired Lu Jiaxi's erudition from the bottom of his heart. Lu Jiaxi sincerely said to the student, "We have an old saying in southern Fujian, which is called' only the students who won the top prize, but there is no Mr. Top prize'. Although I am your husband now, there are still many things I don't understand, so I need to study further. "

analysis: "knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, and knowing is also." Never think you know everything, or you are ignorant.

Niu Yi should never boast, and complacency will turn over. Looking at how many things in ancient and modern times, from humility to luxury. -Chen Yi

★ Discontent is an upward wheel. -Lu Xun

★ A proud person always destroys himself in pride. -Shakespeare

★ Those who attribute their luck to their cleverness and ingenuity are likely to end up unhappy. -bacon

★ Modesty is an indispensable virtue. -Montesquieu

Topic:' Know and Don't Know' and' Modesty'

4. A hundred catties of gold is not as good as a promise from Jibu

Ji Bu, a native of the Han Dynasty, is famous for his sincerity and trustworthiness. As the saying goes, "It's better to get a promise than a hundred catties of gold." It means that a word from Ji Bu is more valuable than gold. Later, Ji Bu followed Xiang Yu's defeat and was wanted by Liu Bang. Many people came out to protect him, which enabled him to tide over the difficulties safely. Finally, Ji Bu was valued by the Han Dynasty for his honesty.

analysis: only those who treat others honestly can be treated honestly by others.

★ Life can't bloom brilliant flowers from lies-Heine

★ Only sincerity can break the sky, but reality can break the sky.-Cai E

★ Those who don't believe in words fail to achieve results-Mozi

★ People who break their promises are not famous-Liu Xiang

★ False sincerity is more terrible than the devil. Later, when he talked about his prose creation, he said: "Now there are more than 2 articles saved in my mind. Although I haven't studied any of them well, such a concrete thing can at least make me understand what the so-called' article' is all about, and can make me understand that the article is not mysterious and incredible, but it is also organized and connected along our way of thinking. "

Analysis: "If you are familiar with 3 Tang poems, you can recite them even if you can't recite them." Don't wonder why people who read more books are superior in their articles. The old man Ba Jin has already told us the answer.

topic: "reading and writing" and "the importance of accumulation"

III. Moral cultivation

1. Tsunami story

There is a story about a girl in Phuket, Thailand. When the tsunami came, Tilly, a 1-year-old British girl, first discovered the white huge waves at the intersection of the sea and the sky. She thought about the knowledge about huge waves in geography textbooks-just before Christmas, she was still thinking about the discussion topic about huge waves arranged by her teacher. Realizing that the disaster was coming, she immediately persuaded her parents and mobilized the tourists on the beach to evacuate with them. When more than a hundred tourists had just arrived in the highlands, the tsunami mercilessly swallowed up the beach.

Analysis: Tilly's story is like a wonderful flower, adding a touch of bright color to this unfortunate disaster. Thanks to Tilly, she showed us what a real quality education is and how knowledge can be transformed into action and generate strength. Thanks to Tilly's parents, only in an equal, democratic and harmonious family atmosphere can parents be patient and fully respect their children's ideas and opinions, instead of simply and rudely suppressing them; Thanks to the Tillies, when the disaster comes, they are not only thinking about their own safety, but actively helping others out of danger. Tilly's story shows us the organic unity of school education, family education and social education, and its giant power. When we are worried about the education of minors all day, Tilly's story seems to give us more insights.

topic: "observation and thinking" and "quality education"

2. get through the worst days

what? Before becoming a painter, Gao worked as a priest in a mining area. Once he went down the well with the workers. In the elevator, he fell into great fear. Trembling iron chains are rattling, boxes are swaying from side to side, and all people are silent, allowing this machine to transport them into a bottomless black hole. This is a feeling of going to hell. After the event, where? Gao asked an old worker with a cool air: "Are you used to it and no longer feel afraid?" The old worker who has been in the elevator for decades replied, "No, we will never get used to it, and we will always be afraid, but we have learned to restrain ourselves."

Analysis: You will never get used to some life, but as long as you live, you will have to live such a life day by day, so you have to learn to restrain and endure. Face the day, get through the worst, and the rest is good.

topic: "learn to control" and "get used to" <