Forced to give up his musical dream to take care of his family.
In 1967, 24-year-old Liang Runmin went to the village and met 22-year-old Yuan. They hit it off and got married on June 1967.
Around 1973, Yuan, who can sing and dance, became a private music teacher in Suide No.2 Primary School. "I have always liked artistic performances such as singing and dancing. I feel very happy every day when I am a teacher, and my daily life is full of freshness. " Liang Runmin works as an agronomist in the Institute of Agricultural Sciences and often goes out to the countryside. Although their income is not high, they are very happy. However, a series of family changes and income beyond our means forced Yuan Zai 1976 to quit his job as a music teacher. "My husband's eldest brother died very early. My mother-in-law died of stomach cancer at the age of 57, and my father-in-law was paralyzed for three years from 199 1 to 1993. My parents' brother and uncle also died early, and the old people on both sides need our care, and the burden is on me and Lao Liang. " "At that time, in order to make a living, I went to work around the county and set up a stall in the street. I often borrow money from others. " Speaking of the difficult days at that time, Yuan couldn't help crying.
Liang Runmin told Huashang Daily that during his father's three years of paralysis, his wife served for three years without complaint. "If I didn't have a low income and a lot of chores at home, she wouldn't have to resign." Speaking of his wife's resignation, Liang Runmin felt very embarrassed.
When the child grew up and became a family, she regained her musical dream.
Later, the three children grew up and got married. With the active support of their wives, around 1990, Yuan regained his hobby when he was young and sang folk songs in northern Shaanxi.
Since 2002, she has actively participated in various folk song singing activities in northern Shaanxi and won many awards. "Now that the children are married, I will go out to sing and play when I am free. My wife is also very supportive and copied so many songs for me. " Speaking of life now, Yuan's face is filled with a happy smile.
Wang Dongwei, who often goes to the Suide county government for business, said with a smile: "Because I often go to the business, I found that an old man sang beautifully in the county government square. Later, I learned that the old man's name was Yuan. Her input, status and touching singing really surprised me and admired her. " Liang Runmin took out various award certificates that his wife got, such as "Excellent Award in the Third Shaanxi Folk Song Competition in Suide County", "Special Honor Award in the Sixth Shaanxi Folk Song Competition in Suide County" and "Welcome to the 11th People's Republic of China (PRC) Art Festival-20 16 Inheritance Award in the Shaanxi Folk Song Competition in Suide County". Faced with this situation, Yuan said with a smile that winning the prize is not important, as long as you live happily.
From 65438 to 2006, he copied more than 500 songs for his wife by hand.
Yuan said that what touched her most was that her husband Liang Runmin not only encouraged her to go out to sing, but also copied more than 500 songs to her neatly.
"My wife copied the music for me, just like it was printed ..." Yuan was very happy and proud when he mentioned the song that his wife personally gave her. Seeing Liang Runmin's handwritten songs, not only the lyrics and scores were neatly copied, but also the contents were specially arranged and bound in folders. Just like music books, there are more than 500 songs, such as Journey to Heaven, Song of Health, Two Feet Walking on the Road of Happiness and Ode to Red Plum, each of which can be deeply loved by people.
Liang Runmin vaguely remembers that once in 2002, Yuan complained that the lyrics were too small to read clearly. From then on, he began to copy songs by hand for his wife. "16, from folk songs in northern Shaanxi to traditional songs, as long as you see something beautiful and hear something nice, copy it down." Liang Runmin said that because of his wife's poor eyesight, he would write the words bigger when he copied them by hand, so that his wife could understand the lyrics.
"Whether rich or poor, whether healthy or sick, we all love each other, depend on each other and spend our lives together." The couple had never heard of this kind of wedding vows, but they kept them for 5 1 year. Yuan said: "The bumpy road has passed together, thanks to Lao Liang's persistence and his support." Liang Runmin said: "My wife once gave up her musical dream for family reasons, but now I must do my best to help her."
This is true love, plain but warm.