Let’s first look at what temperament is. What temperament shows in society is a sublimation of a person’s inner personality charm from the inside out and the quality of a person’s inner charm. There are many kinds of personality charm that refer to, such as cultivation, moral character, behavior, how to deal with others, the feeling of speaking, etc., and the expressions include elegance, nobility, tranquility, gentleness, magnanimity, informality, immediate results, etc. Therefore, temperament is not what you say. Moreover, the combination of one's long-term inner cultivation balance and cultural cultivation is the result of perseverance.

Since temperament is a reflection of self-cultivation, how to improve self-cultivation and education will invisibly improve temperament. As the old saying goes: "Having poems and books in your belly will make you beautiful, and it is the fragrance of books that can reach you far." Let yourself read poems and books, and deeply understand the principles of life and work, and your temperament will come out. Let yourself explore society and know the inner manifestations of beauty and ugliness, good and evil. That person's noble and elegant temperament is reflected in the way he dresses, walks, sits and stands.

Of course, just by reading books, being well-versed in society, and having rich experience does not necessarily mean you will have a special temperament. These are all foundations, and the foundation must be displayed through appearance

Temperament is You can only feel the indescribable subtle feeling, which is difficult to describe. In the past, like most people, I thought that temperament was about reading, walking, and improving one's artistic taste. This was temperament. Later, when I met more people, I discovered that some people may not have read many books, and they have not even read Dream of Red Mansions, but they have good temperament. And there is a kind of woman who has indeed read many books, but has nothing. His temperament can be described as rustic, simple, and not good at polishing. His conversation is not elegant, and of course he is not vulgar. Where are the books he has read? Temperament, I later discovered, is really partly innate, like a mark that has been in the blood. It may be blood, it may be genetic, or it may even be an unbreakable code in a previous life. I didn't agree with this statement at first. In childhood, you will find that some children have their own aura, which is completely different from other children. So, how many books has this child read? How far have you walked? This is not something you can do with money.

College students should all have similar educational levels, right? So, do you have the temperament? Many people who are extremely knowledgeable are just ordinary people. How many of those dazzling celebrities can calm down and study hard? Is the temperament bad? Of course, some people will say that celebrities have a lot of experience, a wide range of knowledge, and a high level of contact, so their temperaments are naturally different, which makes sense.

In short, I believe that temperament comes half from nature and half from nurture. This cultivation has little to do with reading. It is a comprehensive manifestation of many aspects. People who are buried in books all day long Some of the women are truly extraordinary in temperament, while others are mediocre and boring.

What is temperament? It cannot be touched or seen, but it can make you the first to be noticed in a crowd. Temperament is the spirit of poetry and calligraphy. Temperament is a sense of admiration that can be seen from a distance but cannot be played with. Temperament is gentleness that is neither impetuous nor impetuous. There are two ways to improve temperament. One is to have more experience and read books. , traveling, growing older, this is something that requires long-term persistence. One is to improve the temperament from the outside, including speaking, speaking, appearance, walking, lying, sitting and walking.

Appearance

In terms of appearance modification, we must adhere to one principle and do subtraction. Keep jewelry to a minimum, makeup to be light, and clothes to be as comfortable as possible.

Any hairstyle is good, the most important thing is hair quality and scalp. Keep your hair smooth and shiny. Try not to leave thick bangs. Only by exposing your forehead can you show the confidence of a girl

Makeup should be clean. You can wear no makeup or make-up, but the makeup must be clean and clear. Dirty make-up can easily make a person look like they have exerted too much effort and lived a sloppy life

A well-proportioned figure is not required to be thin, but it must not be fat. Note that fat and plumpness are not the same concepts.

The style of clothes should be as simple as possible and the quality must be good. Refer to the minimalist collocation, Japanese, British, European and American collocation. Don't call it "sweet lady style", it's really childish and LOW.

Physique

The body should be in good shape, walk upright, sit upright, with a straight neck and back. Practicing yoga is a good way to get in shape.

Have you ever seen someone praise a girl who is stooped and walks inwardly and outwardly? !

Pay special attention to walking upright! I have seen a lot of beautiful girls, but their ruin lies in the way they walk. If you are inward, you will look unconfident and low-tempered, while if you are outward, you will look very manly.

Don’t lean your head forward. If you have this problem, you can consciously tighten your neck and lift your chin slightly upward. Over time, the lines of your neck will emerge and become more elegant.

Do not shrug your shoulders and hold your chest. You can usually do some shoulder-opening movements, but you must do them step by step, otherwise you will easily strain your muscles.

The back should be straight. To solve this problem, the simplest way is to stand on the wall for many times. During the standing process, try to keep your head, shoulders, buttocks, and calves as close to the wall as possible. This method can also help lose weight. Try to stand for ten to twenty minutes at a time, otherwise it will have no effect.

Inner

Know yourself and examine yourself three times a day. Only when you can talk to yourself can you truly understand the world.

Think more and talk less when things happen. No one likes a person who is boastful and arrogant and spits everywhere.

Improve your emotional intelligence and learn some psychology. Emotional intelligence is a big topic, including emotional intelligence, communication skills, and conversational methods. People with emotional intelligence will unknowingly establish a bright image.

Temperament, the biggest motivation, comes from self-confidence. Only if you believe that you are the best can you be a comfortable existence in the eyes of others.

Temperament is a unique inner cultivation from spirit to behavior that cannot be learned or imitated. Some temperaments are innate, but cultivation is very important. The elegant temperament is pleasing to the eye. How to cultivate a person's temperament? First of all, you must have a certain knowledge base. Pay attention to your own moral cultivation. Secondly, we must pay attention to personal development education. Develop good habits of speech and behavior. Pay attention to your own moral cultivation. Learn to deal with various problems and develop your own personality. We must withstand the test of ups and downs, be neither impatient nor impatient when encountering problems, strive for victory in a stable manner, handle problems properly, and be able to handle problems with ease. In short, temperament is a piece of knowledge that is worth studying and learning by everyone.