In fact, what this means is that it is rare for people to be confused. Happiness is a day, sadness is a day, it is no big deal. Happy things are accepted by the ears, and sad things are felt in the heart. In life, we are often heartbroken by injuries of one kind or another. Russell said that scars are the best gift life can give you. Smiling without speaking is a kind of open-mindedness. The teasing between friends, the helplessness after being misunderstood, and too many rhetorical excuses make people feel flashy. It is better to leave a smile and let others judge. Sometimes a smile can make two people who have a grudge resolve their feud.