I was chatting with a good friend during the National Day last year and talked about her cousin. She is 26 this year and has been single ever since. His cousin is the type of soft girl who is very cute and has a very fresh style of dressing. She especially likes to wear jk service. He also went out with his cousin a few times, and many people would treat her cousin as a student.

My best friend is extremely speechless every time he mentions her: Why don’t any boys fall in love with their cousin?

He was also thinking, logically speaking, not to mention her cousin’s beauty, there must be many boys pursuing such a soft girl, but her cousin is an exception.

Actually, I have had dinner with my good buddy and his cousin several times. I think there is a reason for my good buddy’s depression. Have girls ever been in love? Can they really do that? From what I can tell, in summary, I personally think they are the following types of girls. 1

This type of girls seems to be very sensible, but they only have a fantasy state about love, and it is unrealistic. Maybe they have watched too many romantic dramas and think that love can withstand everything.

They over-idealize love and always look forward to meeting a perfect boy. Their love for her is just like the script, and they are even willing to give their lives for her.

Using the standards of film and television scripts in real life, they look down on the boys around them. There is no one she is satisfied with. She has been waiting for her person to appear. When it comes to standards, she can't tell. I also like the love stories shared by others. I use my experience in books and scripts to come up with a set of theories to help others answer their questions.

The real situation is that they may not have even held a boy’s hand! 2

There is also a kind of ladylike girl who does not show off everywhere, blushes easily, and does not want to be the focus of the crowd. She will be cautious in everything she does. Maybe this girl is full of all kinds of wild ideas, or she may have skills that surpass others such as painting and music, but she won't show them.

I don’t know if there are such girls around you, girls who are super slow to get along, and only have two or three female friends who are very familiar with each other. When we go out together, it is usually the least noticeable one. There are several girls like this around me, and generally speaking, their presence is very low.

For example, during school, for most of half the year, boys did not remember that they had this classmate. Or you can only have a rough idea of ??the person, but not a deep impression. Basically, this kind of girl has no experience in love. 3

There is another kind of girl that corresponds to the above, that is, the carefree kind. I believe that there are such girls around us. They have no ladylike image. In the words of the Internet, their smiles are like barbells. smile.

All kinds of dirty jokes are readily available. For some weak girls, this kind of girl is refreshing, cute and has "boyfriend power".

Of course, boys will like this kind of unique girl, but in the end she has no forward thinking and must turn boys into her buddies.

As the old saying goes, women should look good to those who please themselves. If a girl has someone she likes, she will definitely pay attention to her external image. If this kind of girl suddenly changes, she will 100% have someone she likes. But I've always been like a buddy, and I've definitely never been in love. 四

Everyone must have encountered a home girl, the kind who is particularly home-bound. Life is always about three o'clock and one line. She does not go out unless necessary. Even if she does go out, it is always with three or two best friends.

I basically don’t have any requirements for my appearance. I may put on makeup occasionally, but I always feel that wearing makeup every day is a hassle. I don’t have much interest in buying cosmetics. I might as well spend it on food.

There are very few boys in the address book. I lack experience in interacting with boys. I will be very reserved when meeting boys, let alone be cute and coquettish, and I have no understanding of other people's displays of affection. Wu

Some girls are very lacking in discernment and have no idea how to recognize people. Such girls are too simple and are at a loss to reject others because they are embarrassed to say no.

It is easy to be tempted simply. Once tempted, the emotions will be controlled by the other party. A single expression may make you happy for several days.

Lack of discernment, they are easily moved by cheap words. They believe whatever others say. If someone says they love her, they believe it 100%. Because I cherish this love very much, I will lose myself and my bottom line in the long run. I always want to accommodate other people's feelings, and my will and stance are not firm enough.

Personally, I think falling in love is a skill just like driving screws in a factory. Practice makes perfect, so we need to learn it. Girls who have never been in love are actually treasures. They are soft-hearted, kind and lovely. If you meet a girl who has never been in love, and she decides to be with you, she must have worked hard, but you must cherish it.

Finally, I wish all single boys and girls can find their own love, come on!