After a day's work and fatigue, people generally think that they will rush out of the company at the speed of light. In fact, I don't think so. First, I waited for others to walk away slowly, and then I leisurely ordered myself a cup of milk tea. The computer was on, and I watched the news of the day aimlessly.

I just want to be alone.

In fact, there is no special reason, just that my feet are numb after working all day and I want to relax. I don't think about anything, I don't care about anything, I just stay here without a purpose. What I want is that this state is too comfortable. Sometimes there will be inexplicable tension at home, which may come from others or economic pressure. I have nowhere to put my thoughts and don't want to disturb others.

2. Sometimes it is to hide from relatives.

Because the family will worry about you, and when they see you coming back, they will involuntarily ask you how your work is. Hearing these greetings, I am under great pressure, and being alone has become a way for me to solve problems. Because my family doesn't know your inner world, when they greet me, I will have some burdens in my heart. It's not that you don't answer, it's not that you don't answer, just say you have a good overtime.

3. Sometimes I study.

In fact, to tell the truth, studying in the office is quite efficient, and there is a feeling of being in a university library. Because everyone doesn't take the initiative to talk, they are busy with their own work, so their attention is relatively concentrated. To tell the truth, I stayed in the office after work and passed the IELTS test. Think about it and feel happy. If you achieve something, don't waste time.

I really don't want to worry each other.

I remember a documentary about a big brother sitting in the subway station after work, saying that he was under too much pressure and didn't want to go home. His wife worried her and the police advised him to go home. This is so real. Sometimes sitting on a bus and crying alone will turn you into a sunshine angel when you get home, just don't want to worry the other person. This kind of adult sadness.

The above is my situation. Let's talk about my friend's thoughts.

Unfortunate marriage and disharmony

I have a female friend who stays in the office when she doesn't come home from work. Did we communicate later? She told me that she stayed here to avoid her husband. They often quarrel because of bad feelings, and they will quarrel endlessly as soon as they get home. Just don't go home, be quiet.

2. Married mothers

Haha, this is the most wonderful thing I have ever seen, my best friend. Go to work after giving birth and fly home as soon as you get off work. Later, she slowly turned to overtime and came back later and later. Later she told me that she just didn't want to go home. Because going home is more tiring than going to work.

After she got married and had children, she was too busy to drink a mouthful of water at work. After work, she changed roles and became a mother. After work, she felt empty and tired. Her home is five minutes away from work, and her life is two points and one line. After work, her mind will subconsciously appear: Ding, I'm going home after work. Unconsciously walked to the door of the community, and my heart was empty. Sometimes I will stop and sit in front of the long bench in the community for a while and think nothing.

I think this is a very common phenomenon, and my friends and I are no exception. But this state is not a long-term solution. So we can still make some changes.

Communicate with your family often.

In fact, this state is more because no one understands us and no one listens to what we want to do and say. Because everyone is very busy, running around and the pace of life is fast. But we can make ourselves more sunny, communicate more with others and express more.

The mentality is still positive and sunny.

Later, I seldom didn't come home from work. Because of the epidemic in recent years, my mother will be particularly worried about me if I don't go home soon. Seeing mom's cooking warm on the table, all her troubles will vanish. Be a happy person, so many people love you.