A wedding only happens once in a lifetime, so these experiences are precious to you!

1. Never save money on your favorite things!

Unless you are very rich or win the lottery, you will always have to face the choice of a romantic trip to a foreign country or a domestic honeymoon trip? Should we hold a banquet in a five-star hotel or find a restaurant to have a dinner together? Should you ask a designer to make a wedding dress for you or rent a wedding dress? Many brides choose the latter!

Listen to the voices of brides who came here:

“In order to save money, I rented a wedding dress. Although it is very beautiful, owning a white wedding dress has been my dream since childhood. Dream, I now regret not ordering my own wedding dress.”

“At the wedding, the sound engineer not only got the wedding march wrong, but also played it twice inexplicably. , if I hire a very professional DJ to be responsible for the live music at the wedding, things will be more perfect.”

Don’t spend your whole life complaining about it just to save money!

Solution:

In order to reduce regrets and realize your dreams, never save money where money should be spent. Discuss with your husband what is important to you. The link is the most important and the most irreplaceable? Which links are secondary and can be omitted? Then work out a reasonable wedding spending plan and spend your money wisely. For example, your favorite designer wedding dress, the trip to Paris that he wants, the wedding only happens once in a lifetime, so why not spend it extravagantly?

2. Don’t arrange the wedding too tightly

Some weddings have many arrangements, including reading vows, exchanging rings, bowing, cutting the cake, and opening ceremony. In Champaign, a very compact wedding, including a dance party, the speeches and blessings of the host, witnesses and introducers, will make the newlyweds rush forward like a rapid march, without a chance to breathe all day long.

Listen to what the brides have to say

“I discussed it with the photographer in advance and hoped that we would take more photos when we exchanged rings, but the host quickly moved on to the next step. , I was very disappointed that I didn’t have time to take pictures!”

“As soon as the wedding was over, we went to the airport to fly to the Maldives to start our honeymoon trip. If I could do it again, I hope I wouldn’t be so nervous. I spent one more night with my classmates and flew to the destination the next day. Because many classmates came from afar to attend the wedding, we haven't seen each other since graduation. It was rare for us to get together, but I didn't think of it when I was making wedding plans. I really should set aside more time to share this with everyone.”

The solution

Choose the ritual that you like the most and is the most meaningful, rather than covering everything. Big platter. This will leave some time for the photographer to capture more beautiful moments for you. Set aside some time for relatives and friends who come from afar to chat with them, set aside some time for yourself and the groom to take a proper rest, and fully enjoy the joy and joy of the wedding!

3. Don’t skimp on photos and videos

Although the wedding day is very beautiful, as time goes by, many details of the wedding will gradually blur, leaving behind It's some tangible items, rings, wedding dresses, photos and videos. Image data can help you relive the beautiful moments of your wedding.

Listen to the voices of brides

“I hired a photographer, and the price was very low. The moment I got the photos, I knew why. Many of the photos were blurry. The photos are still dark. He missed the scene of us cutting the cake, and he didn’t take any photos of my parents-in-law. Every time we see the photo album, my husband and I are very angry! I love taking pictures so much that we decided not to hire a videographer, but now I regret it very much. The moment when we hugged our parents was really unforgettable, but now I can’t leave anything behind. It’s really a pity!”

Solution

Many brides attach great importance to the wedding dress, ceremony and banquet, but they don't care much about photos and photography, and often find friends to do this work concurrently. However, unless your friend is a professional, don’t save money on video and photography to ensure that you will still have the best memories 20 years from now.

4. Don’t forget to invite more relatives and friends

Sometimes because the venue is too small, sometimes because the seats are difficult to arrange, you will be hesitant about the guest list. In the end, some guests were not invited.

Listen to what brides have to say

“When deciding on the wedding invitation list, I really don’t know how to separate my picky aunt and my crazy husband. Friends arranged it together, so he didn't invite all his friends, but he really wanted all his friends to be there. Later, he was always worried about this."

"We didn't want to ruin the wedding. It was very extravagant, and only the parents of both parties and some relatives were invited to attend the wedding, so many classmates were unable to attend my wedding. Afterwards, they all complained that they did not see me as a bride.”

The solution.

Chinese people attach great importance to lively reunions. On the wedding day, you should invite all relatives and friends as much as possible to avoid leaving any regrets.

Although everyone has different hobbies and personalities, and there are differences in closeness and distance, their purpose of attending the wedding is to witness romantic moments, enjoy sweet feelings, and bring you good wishes, so it is best to invite as many friends as possible to your wedding. !

5. Never choose uncomfortable clothing

A white wedding dress, an elegant gown, a bright red cheongsam, paired with fresh and natural makeup will make brides so radiant and beautiful. People are different. Who would have thought that these beautiful clothes can also cause brides to suffer?

Listen to the bride’s account

“In order to take pictures, I chose a wedding dress with a long tail. When I walked on the red carpet, the little flower girl stepped on it and I I almost fell down, and it was very inconvenient when dancing. If I had to do it all over again, I would choose to separate the tail or not have the tail at all."

"I kept wearing a pair of stiletto heels throughout the wedding. I really wish I had a pair of flat and comfortable shoes after the party. My feet hurt so much that I had to wear slippers for a week."

The solution

In. When choosing clothing, in addition to being beautiful, fashionable, and suitable for you, don't forget to consider whether it is comfortable, easy to move, and suitable for long-term wear. If not, please adjust it in time.

6. Don’t pursue perfection too much

Every bride wants her wedding to be as perfect as a fairy tale. Therefore, I am always worried that God will not be beautiful, worried that the makeup is not beautiful enough, worried that the food is not delicious enough, worried that the guests will drink too much, which makes me very nervous throughout the whole wedding.

Look at the bride’s story

“I am always worried that it will rain. Even though everything is prepared, I still whisper and let the people around me do the same. I was worried."

"Some things went wrong at the wedding. The cake was not what I ordered, and the band played a bad song. I was still depressed after the wedding. Even the wedding night was unpleasant! ”

Solution

You have spent a long time preparing for this wedding, now all you have to do is enjoy the day to the fullest. Even if things don't go as planned, that's okay, ask yourself if it will affect your happy married life. If not. Then what else do you want it to do?