Most of the time, we are full of doubts and distrust of the world. Always worried about other people's bad intentions, always complaining about all the things they encounter, either worrying about other people's routines, or setting routines for others.
In fact, society is really warm, at least it should not be all routine, at least in my opinion. I am not asking for Amway chicken soup, but I hope you believe that the world is really beautiful.
My friend Xiaoguan works in the postal service. In the eyes of most people, Xiaoguan's job cannot be called "high, big or superior", but at least it can be regarded as decent. However, some time ago, she was always with I complain about all the things I don’t like at work.
"You don't know, there are so many trivial matters recently, and I have to buy food for them. After buying, I didn't even say a word of thanks, and they blamed me for being too slow and the food was cold."
< p> "I have to keep smiling every day, even if my good temper is almost wiped out by my customers.""Chen, do you know?" Xiaoguan paused and asked She cried and told me, "I can't hold on anymore. We have sales performance inspections. Every time I see my parents begging people around me to apply for a card because of me, I will collapse, even though they say 'it's okay.'" , But I really had enough.”
Later, Xiaoguan resolutely quit this job and ran to the city he wanted to work in, working in a job that was not so “respectable”. Although she still occasionally complains to me about work, she has never cried like that again. Sometimes she can still hear the fight on the other end of the phone. I think she should be doing well now.
You see, this world is still good to us. It tells you personally that it is not good, shatters your innocent illusions, takes away your glass heart, and creates diamonds for you. It allows you to learn to choose and follow your own path. Although it is hard, it is at least comfortable.
When I have free time in college, I work as a cashier in the supermarket.
A friend once joked: Wherever I check out the machine, there will be more people queuing up. Thinking about it later, it seems to be true.
I met a couple of grandparents there. Sometimes there are too many people, so I would tell them that it would be faster to queue up at another machine. They shook their heads every time and said: It's okay.
Grandma said: I just like to be on your side. You have a good attitude. When there are not many people, you will help me and listen to what I say.
My grandfather knew that I was about to graduate, so he came here from time to time to ask me what I thought and wanted to help me find a job.
I was surprised and grateful for this.
To be honest, cashiering is a very boring job with various situations, especially when there is a large flow of people.
"Why are you so slow? I'm in a hurry."
"Did you make a mistake? Why do you want so much money?"
"What's the difference between your price and that price?" The prices on the sides are inconsistent, I want to return it."
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But, you see, this world is very gentle, and it has allowed so many people to line up for me. , increased my business funds, improved my cashier speed, and therefore, I earned more wages.
It gently told me that it was fair, and it wanted me to understand: Your kindness to others will always be remembered by others, even in ways you didn't expect.
This world has too many unexpected encounters, too many unexpected things, and too many faces. The things it creates may catch you off guard. It makes you sentimental, but at the same time, it brings a lot of beauty, but you have never discovered it. Beauty is always in front of you, but you are always unconscious. When everything disappears, you slowly see clearly that you are also being treated tenderly by the world.
Many things can only be seen by believing.
Perhaps we are all wandering in different places, and have not found the direction of our hearts. We are just like a child who looks up at the sky when no one is around. Tears flow out cautiously, without extravagant music. background.. But don't rush, follow the voice in your mind, walk forward slowly, turn around, and hug yourself.
When you are grateful, you will find how much you have been loved by this world.
A few days ago, Ji Xiao suddenly felt very emotional. She said: I am glad that I did not choose to stay in my hometown from the beginning. Now I can cook, clean and repair things by myself. Although the monthly rent takes up most of my salary, I have learned to make reasonable arrangements and no longer spend money randomly. It's very comfortable at home, but I like who I am now.
I said: Have you grown up?
She said: We are all growing up.
You see, even if there has been suffering, the beating heart is proving every second: how brave you are as life continues to exist.
At night, when you are lonely and helpless, you can look at the sky outside the window and the bright moon. That is the smile it gives you~