In 2016, if someone was asked what software they used to listen to music, I believe many people would be proud of using NetEase Cloud Music. But if asked this question again now, many people may be ashamed to admit using this music app.

As for why, I think it is closely related to the proliferation of the "net suppresses the clouds" meme.

Some time ago, the meme "Net Yiyun" became popular for a while. Many netizens started to create rich jokes based on the sentence "I'm sorry for being born as a human being". The Internet Yiyun Music Comments section launched a powerful counterattack.

The final result is very obvious. "I'm sorry that I can't give birth to a human being" has occupied the high ground in terms of citation frequency, defeating the group of people who always talk about depression with appropriate humor.

This method of entertaining depression seems to be able to make the public laugh out loud after watching it. It seems that the heavy depressive colors are disintegrated and dissipated in each clever joke.

But as everyone knows, the harm caused by this carnival of jokesters to people with depression is more lethal than the mass-produced pseudo-depressive comments of NetEase Cloud Music. It also allowed "depression" to go through the qualitative transformation of "artistic youth" again, becoming a scandalous word.

In recent years, with the gradual expansion of "mourning culture", the word "depression" has appeared more and more frequently in everyone's field of vision, so that it has been quoted by more and more people and is used indiscriminately. It is used in various sad stories and has become the core tactic of defrauding "likes".

Gradually, this kind of cheap, frivolous and pretentious depression story has finally reached the stage of being tired and ridiculed by people. "Net suppresses the clouds" has become a new trendy meme, spreading among all people. The word "depression" has been widely used in cyberspace.

But those people who are really troubled by depression have become the biggest victims after the confrontation and sweep between the two forces. They no longer dare to easily reveal a trace of depression-related traits to prevent being accused. With the labels of "moaning for nothing" and "old net suppressing clouds".

Maybe one day, no one would have thought that "depression" would be "cured" in this way.

So, if you want to be a voice of reason in this online battle, rather than an amplifier, please learn more about depression before speaking out.

Therefore, I would like to recommend a movie related to depression to you - "Only Love Can Survive". Maybe you will have a new understanding of people with depression after watching it. .

This film is adapted from the love novel of the same name written by Yukiko Motani, which was nominated for both the Akutagawa Award and the Mishima Yukio Award. It is composed by Sugata Masaki, Kiri, Nakari Yisa, Tanaka Tetsuji, Nishida Naomi, Matsushige Yutaka, etc. Starring.

Depression and severe narcolepsy forced Ningzi (played by Qu Li) to spend most of her time in bed. For this reason, she gradually became a squatter at home, almost cutting off contact with the outside world. .

Her boyfriend Tsunagi (played by Masaki Sugada), who has lived with her for three years, was once an aspiring young man with literary dreams, but his edges and passion were smoothed away while working as an editor in a gossip magazine. He just commuted to and from get off work like a machine, buying lunch boxes to bring to Ningzi who couldn't leave the house.

This stagnant life changed because of the visit of Tsunagi’s ex-girlfriend Antang. Antang still couldn't forget her old love for Tsunagi. In order to regain Tsunamu, she began to actively help Ningzi get out of the house and adapt to society. But everything is far from that easy...

Ningzi always behaves a little unreasonably in life. She will take out her temper on her boyfriend and ask him why he doesn't go out. Wearing the gloves she gave him, blaming him for tightening the bottle cap too tightly after drinking Coke, deliberately choosing the bento that her boyfriend liked...

Tsunagi because The daily boring and heavy work has become numb and sluggish. I will only try my best to meet the various unreasonable demands made by my girlfriend, and I will only obediently agree with her various complaints. There is very little real communication between the two.

Under the urging of her sister, Ning Zi finally submitted a resume for applying for a job as a convenience store clerk, and set alarm clocks on three or four clocks to wake up. But when she got up the next day, she discovered that she had missed the interview time. She was so angry that she could only hit her head with the alarm clock and vent her anger, and finally hid in bed.

Under the pressure of Tsunagi’s ex-girlfriend, Ningzi had no choice but to work in a coffee bar. Fortunately, the boss is a very nice person. Even though he knew that Ningzi suffered from depression and was emotionally unstable, he still kept her.

Here, Ningzi also met the friendly colleague Lina and the gentle boss lady. After feeling their kindness, Ningzi happily sent a message to her sister, excitedly telling her that she had found a job. And after being in contact with them for a few days, I even felt like I could blend in with them and live like normal people.

During the seemingly enjoyable dinner, everyone’s discussion about washlets completely brought Ningzi back to her original life.

The store manager asked why Ningzi stayed in the bathroom for a long time every time and whether she fell asleep in it because of narcolepsy. Ningzi replied that it was just because she didn't know how to use a washlet, and she was worried that the water it sprayed would cut the person in two.

When discussing this possibility, Ningzi described it vividly and finally asked everyone if they didn’t think washlets were scary. The store manager just looked at her strangely and asked her if she had drunk too much. .

At this moment, Ningzi discovered that she and them still belonged to two different groups. Even if they were treated tolerantly, it was still difficult to integrate.

So she lost control of her emotions again, smashed the toilet, rushed out of the door, and ran away. On the same day, Tsunagi was fired from the company because he was unwilling to publish a sensational and false entertainment article and threw his computer from the window.

After receiving Ningzi’s call, Tsunamu ran all the way and finally caught up with Ningzi who had escaped. On the cold rooftop, Ningzi asked Tsunamu why he liked her and why he had stayed with her for three years.

Tsunamu looked at Ningzi and replied:

"On the day we met home for the first time, I was shocked when I heard you say that you felt someone had seen through you, because I had similar thoughts before, but I just deliberately kept a distance from the surroundings. But Ning Zi, you ran without any scruples while your head was still bleeding. I thought it was awesome that I ran with you. At that time, your blue skirt was flying and very beautiful. Although I don’t know the meaning of this kind of thing, I still want to see such a beautiful thing. "

After hearing this, Ningzi answered with laughter and tears: < /p>

"Is this the reason for staying with me, Tsunagi? In fact, your brain circuit is not normal, I don’t even know."

These two live like a backwater. The two people inside established an understanding again at this moment. Although it was only a short moment, it was enough to support Ningzi to continue to survive.

Depressed people are by no means just full of despair about life. On the contrary, they can always find the meaning and joy of life in the cracks. So, please understand them more.