A few years ago, the rock king Zang Tianshuo left us forever. To this day, when many people walk into KTV, the first song they order is still his classic song "Friends".
Now, the singer who brought us this song has left us. When he left this world, Zang Tianshuo was only 54 years old. In this era of advanced medical technology, dying at the age of 54 seems so hasty. Today, let us review the last days of this tough guy, this "Beijing pure man".
Zang Tianshuo is said to be a "pure man from Beijing". This sentence comes from the famous CCTV host Dong Hao. At Zang Tianshuo's funeral, Dong Hao accepted an interview with reporters and said that Zang Tianshuo was the representative of that generation of pure men in Beijing.
He said that he and Zang Tianshuo were both children who grew up in an alley. Many times, what Zang Tianshuo expresses about himself in his lyrics is actually expressing the generation of people who had a similar growth experience to him. . Regarding Zang Tianshuo's evaluation, Dong Hao used the two sentences "responsive to all requests and very kind". And Dong Hao also said sadly that there are really not many such friends anymore.
When it comes to Zang Tianshuo's musical achievements, in fact, most of us don't understand music. As non-professionals, it is difficult for us to accurately evaluate his music from a layman's perspective. Still, many of us are fans of his. What fascinates us is not Zang Tianshuo's musical attainments, but the "tough guy" temperament he exudes.
In today's world, that kind of "loyalty" seems both alternative and rare, and that tough guy character was also reflected in Zang Tianshuo's last days.
In the song "Friends", some of Zang Tianshuo's lyrics are not warm. "If you are enjoying happiness, please forget me." Of course a true friend would not do this, but why would Zang Tianshuo use such words in a heart-warming song?
When talking about the creation of this song later, Zang Tianshuo said that he actually wanted to use irony to emphasize the preciousness of friendship from another perspective. He used this kind of black humor to depict friendship deeply and touchingly.
Dong Hao said that the song "Friends" was actually written about Zang Tianshuo himself. He is loyal and cheerful among his friends. During holidays, he always carries red envelopes of various sizes. One thousand or two thousand, always give one to the elderly or children when you see them. Of course, this kind of personality also makes him inevitably involved in fights and grudges.
After Zang Tianshuo suffered from cancer, it was already in the advanced stage as soon as it was discovered. Although medicine has become very advanced today, there are still some diseases that we are still unable to conquer, and cancer is one of them. After Zang Tianshuo was found to have cancer, doctors adopted conservative treatment based on his physical condition.
We know that Zang Tianshuo was still very young at that time. The psychological pressure he suffered when he contracted cancer at such a young age can be imagined. Generally speaking, patients will go through multiple psychological stages before finally coming to the stage of accepting that they have cancer.
Remorse and fear will be experienced during the process, but according to Zang Tianshuo's doctor's meeting, this "tough guy" seemed to have skipped the stage of regret and fear in his psychological stage during the treatment process, and reached the stage of calm acceptance. period.
In this world, everyone may have different reactions to disasters. Some people will publicize their suffering everywhere, hoping to gain sympathy from others, but Zang Tianshuo obviously does not belong to this kind of person. In comparison, he cares more about maintaining his own image.
According to the memories of Zang Tianshuo’s friends, many of his friends at the time wanted to visit him in the later period, but he refused. This "tough guy" wants to retain a strong image in the minds of his friends and doesn't want them to see his vulnerable side.
Later, Zang Tianshuo simply deleted all his WeChat friends and phone numbers in his address book, and refused everyone to visit. Perhaps, this is the last dignity he requires in life.
In this way, Zang Tianshuo walked the last part of his life calmly and decently. Perhaps in the final stage, he will feel alone and lonely, but he hopes to maintain his image and will always be a "big brother" in everyone's mind.