Wedding reception → bride ceremony → wedding ceremony → the rest of the ceremony.

After the wedding ceremony (the ceremony of becoming a woman), the woman sees menstruation → menstruation loves her → Mother feeds menstruation.

Three Books: Later generations talked about marriage, and the "Six Rites" often appeared together with the "Three Books" and were not included in the weekly system.

Capacity:

Letter of engagement: that is, the letter of engagement, which is created by both men and women. When Najib (Guo) is used.

Gift book: Gift book is a list of gifts, which lists the types and quantities of gifts in detail. Use when receiving credit information (for a big gift)

Marriage book: that is, the book to marry the bride. For picking up the bride on the wedding day.

On the wedding day, the groom personally led the drum band, honor guard and float to the woman's house, blowing and beating along the way. The girl filled the mortar with three liters of millet, covered the well with a mat, plugged the window with a three-catty pestle, and put three arrows on the door to ward off evil spirits. The bride will dress up in her boudoir before boarding the float. At this time, there are makeup poems, which are usually sung by the groom himself or by the guests. At that time, there was a makeup advice poem: "It is rumored that the candle drops pink, so don't make love in front of the mirror. There is no makeup on the face, but there are eyebrows to draw people "; "In the past, I will swim in Yujing, the first immortal Xu Zhuangtou. Today, I have the honor to be Jin Hui, A Qin. I will teach the couple to go to the makeup building early." Someone wants to read an article about car obstacles after singing makeup poems. After leaving the boudoir, the bride must cross the saddle to show her family wish her a safe journey and a smooth arrival at her husband's house. Obstacle cars will be held on the way to the wedding parade, and the people who bid farewell to the wedding will have fun drinking with the people who watched the wedding and stop the car for money.

When the bride arrives at the groom's house, people below her parents will go out the small door and come back from the gate, which means following in the footsteps of the bride. After the bride enters the door, she worships pigs and stoves first, then gods and ancestors, and then couples worship. In the Tang Dynasty, the bride should not only bow to her in-laws and her husband's elders, but also bow to the guests attending the ceremony, which is called "bow ceremony". After visiting the temple for three days, the bride began to "take care of women's work". Her first job was to cook in the kitchen to honor her parents.

After the meeting, there was a bridal chamber, which was called a "play girl" in the Tang Dynasty, and then the newlyweds entered the new house (the groom entered the new house backwards) to drink acacia wine together. Later people call it a "toast", which means that the two sides love each other and become one. It was called "marriage" at that time.

After the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom say goodbye to each other again and then sit on the bed. At this time, a large group of women began to spread money, which is called "spreading accounts". Money is generally six baht, engraved with the words "long life and wealth", and tied with a color bar every ten articles. At this point, the wedding is over.

In wedding etiquette, after entering the bridal chamber, there are some precautions.

First, fans. The ancient bride covered her face with a fan and left after the memorial ceremony. In the Tang Dynasty, women often used two kinds of fans for marriage, namely, ten thousand fans and folding fans, so the bridal chamber was fixed on love, which was called "lack of fans" in the old saying. Like the makeup poem mentioned above, the man should also make a fan poem.

You don't need makeup, but you should keep your eyebrows for the painter.

It's cold in the city with wax torches, and the brocade curtain is exposed to Luan.

I have learned that Qin women are immortals and don't want to separate the circle from peony.

Don't fan the picture out of the curtain to cover up the backwardness of Chunshan.

If the reunion is as bright as the moon, put osmanthus in it.

Secondly, knot is also called "knot hair", which symbolizes the harmony between husband and wife and the unity of mind forever. The "knot hair" in the Qin and Han Dynasties refers to that the groom untied the bride's wedding vows when she was at the bride's home, that is, tied the ribbon of her hair, and then tied it after combing her hair. After the Sui and Tang Dynasties, both men and women cut off a little hair and tied it into a "bun", which was usually kept for the bride immediately. Midnight Song by Cai Chao, a poetess in Tang Dynasty;

According to the cloud, lang also divides his hair.

If you can't find someone to ask, tie an empathetic knot.