Wedding preparation notes, bride’s wedding etiquette details!
In the wedding ceremony, the bride usually sits on the bed while waiting for the bride to be welcomed. At this time, you should pay attention to:
1. If you are wearing a wedding dress or Xiuhe dress with a larger skirt, , sit cross-legged on the bed, and then ask the bridesmaid to help spread the skirt. The bride then overlaps her hands on her knees and lifts her upper body slightly.
2. If you are wearing a dragon and phoenix gown, sit on the edge of the bed. However, do not sit on the whole buttocks when sitting. Sit two-thirds of the way and keep the upper body straight, or it is similar to kneeling and sitting on both sides. You can also bend your legs to one side and place your hands on top of each other.
① During the wedding ceremony, the bride usually laughs because of the door-blocking game, but she still needs to pay attention to her expression management. It doesn’t matter whether she covers her mouth or not, but don’t laugh until she falls forward or rolls on the bed. After all, you are still the bride. oh.
②After the door blocking is over, the groom will usually kneel on one knee to present the bouquet. At this time, the bride should take it with both hands. If hugging and kissing, the bride should still sit and wait for the groom to hug and kiss. Don’t stand up in a hurry. Or jump on the groom.
③ If there is a custom of feeding each other glutinous rice balls or sweet soup, it is recommended that each other feed each other a small mouthful, and stop eating as much as possible. Head over to eat.
Simply serve tea
1. There is a saying of "seven teas and eight wines", which means that when pouring tea, do not overfill it, preferably seventy percent full, to avoid spilling the tea.
2. When serving tea, you should hold the middle and lower parts of the teacup with both hands, bow your upper body at 90 degrees, and bring the teacup 40 centimeters away from your parents’ chests with both hands, which is less than half a meter away. So that parents can catch the tea cup.
3. After the parents drink tea, the newlyweds must take the tea cup with both hands. ps: Be careful not to serve tea with one hand or put your fingers on the rim of the cup.
Getting in and out of the wedding car
1. When getting into the wedding car, the bride should lower her head slightly, bend over slightly, and sit in carefully to avoid hitting her head against the door frame.
2. After sitting down, it is best for the groom or the bridesmaid to help him arrange the hem of the wedding dress.
3. When getting off the wedding car, the bride should not rush out of the car. It is best to walk slowly with the support of the bridesmaid or the groom.
ps: If it is not a necessary custom, it is not recommended to let the groom hold or carry him in and out of the wedding car. After all, it is easy for both of them to fall down and hit the door frame.
Ceremony session
Newcomers’ entrance is mainly about walking, but there are many details to pay attention to, because accidents are most likely to occur if you don’t walk well:
1. When waiting, remember to ask the bridesmaid to help you arrange the hem of your skirt.
2. Don’t enter the venue as soon as the music starts. Wait for 5-15 seconds and give the guests a certain amount of time. When all eyes are focused on you, enter again.
3. When walking, look straight ahead and smile. Don’t look around or look down at your skirt. If relatives and friends throw flower petals or colored paper, don’t deliberately avoid them or block them with your hands.
4. In order to prevent stepping on the skirt, the bride should pay attention to the following when walking:
① Use both hands to gently lift the front and middle part of the wedding dress, but do not lift it too high so as not to affect walking It is better not to expose the toes.
② If it is a wedding dress with a large tail, it is best for the bride to keep her feet two fist-widths apart when walking, and then use her toes to kick up the skirt of the wedding dress like a little duck, and lightly lift the skirt. Just kick it up lightly.
③ If it is a floor-length wedding dress, you can learn to do the model cat walk, draw a small semicircle when you step, and gently kick the skirt forward with your toes.
④ If it is a fishtail wedding dress, you must tighten your knees and take one step at a time when walking.
5. Whether you are holding your father or the groom, the two should keep a distance of about 15cm to avoid being too close and the other party will step on your skirt.
6. When walking, everyone’s stride length should be smaller than usual and walk slower than usual. This not only makes it easier for photographers to take pictures, but also looks more stable. At the same time, the pace should be consistent with that of the father and groom. .
7. When saying goodbye to your father, remember to hug or bow to express your gratitude, and the newlyweds should watch their father step down.
8. When the groom kneels to present flowers, the bride should squat slightly, take the bouquet with her right hand, touch the groom's arm with her left hand, and stand up together.
9. When the bride is holding the groom, she should put her hands naturally into the groom’s elbow. Do not pull the groom’s clothes or tightly hold the groom’s arm. This will look very stingy and the same as the groom. When walking, the bride should be half a step behind the groom.
10. The groom should also pay attention to his manners when walking. Keep his legs together, keep his body straight, and look forward. His left arm gently holds the bride, his left hand gently makes a fist, and it is placed at the navel. His right hand hangs naturally. Pay attention. Don't make too much noise with your heels.
Speech
Most people cry when giving a speech, so pay attention to:
1. If the officiating witness or parents are speaking, the couple should listen carefully and Make eye contact with the speaker, and don't lean over or whisper.
2. When making oaths, the bride and groom should each hold a microphone. Do not pass it back and forth, as it will make the scene chaotic.
3. There is no need to deliberately hold back crying, but stop talking when you cry. Adjust your emotions before talking to avoid sobbing.
4. Do not wipe your tears with your hands. Use your hands or tissue to gently press your eyes or tears. Do not wipe them back and forth, as this will damage your eye makeup.
Exchanging rings
Wearing a ring is a very sacred moment, so be careful not to drop the ring:
1. When exchanging rings, the couple should not be completely Keep the back of your hand flat and face the guests at an angle of 75 degrees. This is convenient for the photographer to take pictures and for the guests to be polite.
2. When the groom puts on the ring for the bride, the bride’s elbow should be bent at 90 degrees. Then the groom holds the bride’s right hand with his left hand, holds the ring with the thumb, index finger and middle finger of his right hand, and slowly puts the ring on the bride. On the right hand, let the ring slide gently into the ring finger. At this time, the bride should open her fingers wider and watch the groom's movements with her eyes. The same goes for the bride wearing it for the groom.
3. Be careful not to hold the other person’s hand tightly when wearing the ring, and do not wear it with your hand under your eyes, as it does not look good.
Exchanging rings
Wearing a ring is a very sacred moment, so be careful not to drop the ring:
1. When exchanging rings, the couple should not be completely Keep the back of your hand flat and face the guests at an angle of 75 degrees. This is both convenient for the photographer to take pictures and for the guests to be polite.
2. When the groom puts on the ring for the bride, the bride’s elbow should be bent at 90 degrees. Then the groom holds the bride’s right hand with his left hand, holds the ring with the thumb, index finger and middle finger of his right hand, and slowly puts the ring on the bride. On the right hand, let the ring slide gently into the ring finger. At this time, the bride should open her fingers wider and watch the groom's movements with her eyes. The same goes for the bride wearing it for the groom.
3. Be careful not to hold the other person’s hand tightly when wearing the ring, and do not wear it with your hand under your eyes, as it does not look good.