Has anything happened recently that made you feel sad?

This autumn, a group of students took off their high school uniforms, carried their suitcases, and went to their respective cities to start their own new lives.

This Saturday night, I kept video chatting with my friends until midnight. My friend Xiaoyang said that even half a month into school, her relationship with her roommates was still dull and even had many conflicts. Xiaoyang studied in a good university in another province. Everything was originally the best arrangement, but he was troubled by the relationship between his roommates. Xiao Yang lived in a four-person room, and the other three people were from the province. On the first day of school, the three of them communicated happily in dialect, leaving Xiao Yang, who could not understand, silently embarrassed.

? Because of the different lifestyles, Xiaoyang is always ignored by his roommates intentionally or unintentionally. No, during the three-day Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, two of Xiaoyang's roommates went home, while the other one went on a trip with friends. Xiao Yang, who didn't buy a ticket to go home, could only stay in the dormitory alone.

She said: "When I curled up and slept on the bed alone in the dormitory at night, I really felt helpless."?

I kept telling her "It's okay" , I also believe that everything will get better in the near future, it just takes a little time.

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Each of us is moving forward, meeting different people at different stages, getting to know each other, and saying goodbye at a certain time to move on to the next journey of life. There are wonderful encounters and the beginning of frustration, but no matter what, we should learn to be independent and grow gradually.

I am a slow-tempered person who is not very good at getting along with others. When I was a child, the palm reader said: I am a child who is not good at dealing with others. Thinking about it, I have been frustrated along the way because of my slow personality.

I obviously want to express myself, but I always give up the idea that I have practiced countless times in my heart because of timidity; I want to integrate into the new classmates, but I say something but get cold feet; I also have a crush on someone who has been in love for many years. , because he was not confident and never expressed it, he watched him hold hands with others.

In the past, I would feel depressed because of many small things, and caring too much about what others thought made me very unhappy.

Later, I gradually understood that most of the things you worry about will not happen. Even if they happen, don’t be sad, because it may not be as bad as you think.

When we were children, we always cried loudly when something sad happened, and it was hard for everyone to know our inner grievances. As we grow up, we become more and more calm in dealing with things, not because there are no sad things, but because we have all learned to pretend, and learned to crush our emotions into pieces and swallow them in our stomachs.

Don’t feel sad every day. The future is promising and the world is worth it. We should all have good expectations for ourselves and others.

One day, you will calm down, read your own story like an outsider, and shake your head with a smile!

May you be as warm as ever, and may you shine toward the sun in a free and easy way, gradually blooming with light.

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