In everyone's life, you will meet all kinds of people, keep relatively frequent contact with different people, and collude with some people. When I was a child, I couldn't bear loneliness, and I liked to call my teammates to distribute my life incisively and vividly. If you don't go to play with your good friends on the rest day, but live at home alone, and you are embarrassed to say it, it seems particularly withdrawn. The older you get, the more you will find that the seemingly noisy life is actually just a waste of yourself. All you get is a stomach that stirs the sea, and there is no benefit in retrospect.
Although I understood the necessity of minimalism when I was young, I couldn't. On one hand, I can't learn to refuse. On the other hand, I have always felt that "there are many friends" and my own road is not easy to block. When people get old, they gradually understand that most of the so-called friends are just names, and there are only a handful of real friends. The so-called friends, mostly exchange rights and interests, or simply spend a few years. After retirement, fair-weather friends broke off as soon as they had a holiday. After all, when I am old, my body can't stand it. It is best to choose a simple lifestyle, instead of being addicted to restaurants and wine fields like young people.
Besides spending money, these fair-weather friends have no other benefits for themselves. They don't need to keep in touch, and they don't need to keep a hypocritical scene in pursuit of face. Making their life simpler and healthier is the most suitable way of life.
Avoid love and provoke neighborhood relations.
In our life, it is inevitable that we will fall into other people's discussions, and no one will say who is behind his back, let alone who is behind his back. There are some discussions, but they are just casual remarks in daily life, or just casual remarks. There is no good principle. Some well-founded topics are inevitable, so we don't have to take them too seriously. Some normal news is actually just a moment of boredom, and we can accept it calmly. However, there will always be some people in life who like to sow discord, like to listen to other people's suggestions and expand some things. Originally, it was a trivial matter, which can be magnified in this group of people and completely conforms to the objective facts. To eliminate loneliness and boredom. But if you meet these neighbors who like right and wrong, too much contact will only involve yourself in some unwarranted right and wrong. Retirement was originally a quiet plan, and there is no need to make life confusing.
After retirement, you should know more positive people, find something useful to enrich your life, and don't make friends casually because of loneliness, which makes your life worse and worse.