1 If you have been hurt in a relationship, or have been deeply hurt. It is really difficult to stand up again, build trust with others and accept others. Trust this thing, it can't be built in a day or two. Everyone is in the process of getting along for a long time, and slowly, they begin to rely on others and trust others.
The present environment is not very good, and there are too many love rat. Many girls have panic psychology and think that boys are unreliable. For your own life, it is better to live alone. Xu Guoli's case and Lin Shengbin's case have sounded the alarm for many girls. Many people draw a conclusion from Xu Guoli that second marriage is not reliable. But Lin Shengbin is not a second marriage, and he can't seem to be trusted!
Some girls are introverted and feel that their conditions are not so good and they feel inferior. Don't want to go out to socialize, don't go out to make friends with people. At three o'clock every day, I feel that I am living a good life alone. There's no need to find someone else to give me trouble. Actually, it is inferiority complex. You are not as painful as you think. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. Give full play to your advantages and show your beautiful side to others.
I think it is very normal for a person to have such an idea in a short time. Everyone is an independent individual, so there is no need to have social activities all the time. When you meet some things, you need to calm down and think. However, it is better to get out of this shadow and go out to socialize. How are you going to live your life? Of course you have the right to choose. But I think if it is perfect, it is best to have a partner, then get married and have children, and support each other until they are old. It's not that I can't be a dink when I'm lonely, but I always feel less perfect.