It is very important to find a husband who treats you well. Marriage is a lifelong event. You must keep your eyes open when choosing a marriage partner. Marriage must be carefully considered and should not be impulsive.

What kind of men should not be married?

1. Sissy and timid men

Sissy men do not necessarily have no achievements and responsibilities. If they are especially courageous, If you are young, then this man will often treat you as a mother, be affectionate but often sticky to you, leaving you with no personal space. His words and actions are less manly, and what's more, he'll scold you from time to time, and you risk the other person's cheating on you.

Suitable for women: Female friends who have a strong maternal instinct and like to take care of children and get along with their boyfriends or husbands.

2. Lack of principles and improper conduct

Morality and principles of doing things will accompany a person throughout his life. In this life, they will look at the world, respond to problems, and do things with this kind of thing. matter. If a person challenges the rules, ignores principles, lacks warmth, and is indifferent, don't think that this is a talent. In fact, this is a personality defect. If the other party talks to you about the methods used to govern others in the workplace or in life, or talks to you about some crooked ways. No matter what kind of shady behavior or means, you should be wary of any behavior that puts your conscience aside.

Suitable for women: those who advocate the jungle principle, are proficient in thick black science, only value the results, not the process, and believe that there is nothing wrong with unfair means.

3. Stingy and narrow-minded men

Saving money is not a bad thing, but for a man who also has many demands on the person he loves, what is love? Financially Being stingy is not the biggest problem. The biggest sticking point is that some men like to remember trivial things, which will cause trouble for you intentionally or unintentionally in the future. It seems that they are always reminding you of where you offended him in the past. Let you never forget, let you feel sorry for him. The life of such a person who is determined to retaliate is gloomy. In their world, everything is related to interests.

Applicable to women: doing things vigorously and resolutely can suppress any sneaky mentality of men.

4. The name is not worthy of the name and the appearance is different.

It is better to be a real villain than a hypocrite. This is a saying that people often say. In love, the most important thing is honesty. Only sincerity can you feel each other's warmth. If a man never says the same thing as what he does, hides some bad things in his heart, picks and chooses what you like to hear, looks completely different in front of others and behind others, and develops the habit of lying in everything, I think not many people can do it. accept.

Suitable for women: those who are simple in nature and not good at detecting people's hearts.

5. Overly self-centered and only have eyes for themselves

These men will consider everything from their own standpoint and perspective. Although they will be kind to you, if you don’t If you act according to his wishes, he will often fall out with you. In the face of interests, they mostly think about themselves and are good for you on the surface. In fact, the ultimate beneficiary is definitely themselves. It is difficult for selfish people to provide real warm love to women. In the face of interests, reputation, and material things, your feelings are often ignored. They are destined to have only a small space, less sense of responsibility, and less happiness.

Suitable for women: People who are easily lost in their eyes and hearts by the so-called love, and who can fully devote themselves to love.

6. Irritated personality and not able to control emotions

This kind of man will not tolerate any disobedience from you, otherwise he will become violent and make you succumb to their fists. Part of the time, they are really nice to you, but when anger is ignited, these people are really good at attacking. This behavior is a character flaw. They feel lonely and incompetent in their hearts. Because they are afraid that their weak side will be discovered, they will use force to protect themselves. Without the ability to handle things correctly, a rough and direct approach will be adopted.

Applicable to women: People with very weak personalities who find it difficult to get rid of the control of others.

7. A strong desire to control and want to control everything

This kind of person is similar to the selfish person mentioned above, but this kind of person is more powerful and does most of the time. Sincerely for your own good. They want to control the outcome of everything that happens in your life, and they want to be involved in everything, whether it's work, friends, etc.

When you don't want to accept it, they will lose their temper until one party gives in. This type of person speaks harshly, often looking for the right places to attack you, and often sees the shortcomings of others. They have sharp thorns all over their body. They seem to be waiting for a fight at any time and will not let anyone slip up. They criticize you from the standpoint of your own good, in order to make you realize your shortcomings and incompetence. In fact, this kind of people lack a sense of security in their hearts. It's not that they don't love you, it's just that this way of encircling you makes your life unable to be peaceful.

Applicable to women: People with a gentle personality who don’t care at all about being controlled or being involved in their lives.

8. Rich in emotions and very close to anyone of the opposite sex

This kind of men are very emotional and take good care of women. They are very good to everyone and have many friends. It’s easy to have compassion overflowing. It seems that the world's affairs are one's own affairs. They run between women, and their love often ends in vain. The experience of falling in love is as exciting as flipping through a book. There are three, four or five people chatting, two or three people shopping, and a group of people eating together. They can always talk for hours, even days. When you meet such people, you have no way to prove where you are in their world. What you are chatting with is the end of life. Such men can be good friends, but to become a good boyfriend and husband, they must go through the test of time. They need concessions from their girlfriends, and you need to find a place among a lot of female friends.

Applicable to women: If you love this kind of person with all your heart, you think that the other person will definitely turn around.

9. Your friend is a mixed bag of dragons and fish, and the other person’s background is unclear

If the other person has a group of dog-meat friends, you always think that the other person’s appearance is disgusting and less fun. His friends don’t encourage advancement and just have fun with your boyfriend or let your boyfriend clean up the mess. It interferes with the relationship between you and your boyfriend and encourages you to have trouble. Although they won't listen to their friends now, they will eventually assimilate. If this man met through an online platform, and their previous lives had no intersection, even if the two chatted a lot, they would not touch on his background, past, family, etc., and would know nothing about his displayed life. The other party has never had a positive conversation, and they suddenly miss you and interact with you, like a sudden drop from the sky, which you can't believe at all. When you meet this kind of man, you should learn to observe. This kind of person may be an emotional liar who just wants to enjoy a romantic relationship. Being in a relationship with someone whose background is unknown is like carrying an unidentified explosive.

Applicable to women: women who are bold and want to try everything.

10. Look down on women and treat them as an alternative group

This kind of men are not bad to women, but they treat you very well, like pets, without respect. Their lack of care is not a concession, but a disdain to reason with you. They regard women as a vulnerable group, think that you are not the same kind of creatures, and despise women from the bottom of their hearts. In their eyes, women are just tools for entertainment, with little fairness and respect.

Applicable to women: People who like to rely on men and inherently believe that there is a gap between women and men.

These three men are not worth dating

The first type of men: men who like to flirt with women

Never marry a man who is not dedicated when you are in love. Otherwise, your married life will definitely be very miserable. Such a person is a very irresponsible man. They like to be ambiguous with other women, and usually like to deal with all kinds of women. Such a man who is not dedicated will not be loyal to you, or he may not have you in his heart at all. If you have met a scumbag, you have devoted yourself wholeheartedly in exchange for it. But the ending is heartbreaking, and in real life, this kind of man must be greedy for enjoyment, selfish, dishonest, lack of family responsibility, and most importantly, he will eventually hurt his family. If a woman enters the life world of such a man, it is tantamount to walking into the grave of death, because the mental torture will definitely make the woman collapse and suffocate. On the contrary, if a man doesn't care about your interactions with other members of the opposite sex, then he doesn't love you. Love will make a man much more possessive. If he doesn't care at all, then he doesn't care about you at all. On the contrary, if a man doesn't care about your interactions with other members of the opposite sex, then he doesn't love you. Love will make a man much more possessive. If he doesn't care at all, then he doesn't care about you at all.

The second type of man: a man with a bad temper

What is the mentality of a man hitting a woman? Only a man with no moral bottom line would do this. A man who loves his woman will not have time to hurt her. How could he be willing to hit her? In real life, this kind of man has extremely low self-esteem in his heart and is extremely conceited in his appearance, but in this way his wife will be covered with bruises. Everyone will always be in a bad mood, but please don’t vent this anger on the people you love or the people who love you. Please don’t tolerate domestic violence men. Once they attack you, don’t forgive them. He is the kind of man who easily shirks his responsibilities and is never calm. Temper and personality may be due to congenital factors. Men who cannot control their temper and are prone to irritability will not solve the problem. They will only make the problem more serious because domestic violence is addictive and will relapse again and again. It will be more serious than the last time. If the cycle goes on like this, the wife's body and mind must be suffering from pain again and again until the silent ending. Women, if you encounter such men, please stay away from them.

The third type of men: men with bad habits

Women should stay away from men with bad habits. It is difficult for men with these habits to completely quit. Even if you quit at that time, you will relapse once someone seduces you. Therefore, men with these three habits will destroy a happy family, make your married life miserable, and even seriously affect the healthy growth of your offspring. Women Do you want your children to have such a father? In real life, this kind of man behaves like a bohemian, disrespectful, resentful, rude, has no filial piety, no virtue, often cries about his father and scolds his mother, and shows off his behavior. He looked innocent and aggrieved; he even lacked basic respect and filial piety for his own parents, let alone expect him to respect and honor his wife's parents. Such a man will only make you disgusted and disgusted with him, and is not worthy of your lifelong trust. Please keep your eyes open when you meet such men and don't be fooled by their sweet words.

What kind of man should you never marry?

First, a man who has no respect for his parents and no filial piety.

I have seen many men who are so impatient and casual when talking to their parents on the phone. There is no respect in their tone. You know, those are his own biological parents. What kind of kindness in this world can compare with the upbringing of his parents? A man who doesn’t even know how to respect his parents, do you think he will respect you? I It's about the future. There are some stupid women, really stupid. When they encounter such a situation, they are still complacent. Their thoughts are very simple: "He treats me much better than his parents. It seems that I am still quite important in his heart." Yes!" It doesn't matter whether it's important or not. Let's wait until the novelty wears off! Really!

Secondly, he is a man who complains all day long and is full of negative energy.

The so-called negative energy does not mean that he never complains, but that he never complains needlessly. What are the characteristics of a man full of negative energy? He blames his parents all the time, but never blames himself. When something unfair or unsatisfactory happens, he never thinks about his own reasons and always complains. God or others were unfair to him. Such a man's whole life is negative. Are you sure that being with him will not affect you? Marriage is a lifelong event. If you marry a man full of negative energy and spend time together every day, are you sure that you will not be affected by it? Are you bored? Never underestimate the contagiousness of negative energy. It happens quietly and unconsciously. When you find traces of it, it's already too late.

Third, a man who is full of lies and has serious bad habits.

Imagine that in your future life, you have to try to verify every sentence you hear from him, to distinguish between true and false. Aren’t you tired? A man who is full of lies. As a man, do you have so much energy to argue with him about what is right or wrong? Do you think that if you don’t do anything in your life, you will just argue with him? Women, never comfort yourself, don’t think that some men have problems It will change after marriage. If there is a change, it will become worse after marriage. A man with bad habits must never get married. It is no exaggeration to say that he may lose his whole family! How many years of hard work you have put in may not be enough for him to spend one night. This thing cannot be given up. Maybe he has tasted it. He will also correct himself, but what is certain is that when he tastes the power, you will have nothing.

Fourth, a narrow-minded, heartless man.

Don’t marry a man without measure. Say important things three times. Unless you can guarantee that you will never make mistakes in your life and that everything you do in your life will satisfy him, otherwise you are wrong once. He will torture you into doubting your life. Life is so long, and once you marry a man who cares about everything, it will undoubtedly seem even longer. A man who is ruthless and has no bottom line in doing things will, sooner or later, impose his unscrupulous methods on you. We are born as human beings, and we can only be called human beings because we have bottom lines and principles. How terrifying a person without feelings is! You simply can’t imagine how crazy things he can do. He can treat others just as he can treat you. The day he really turns his back on you and is ruthless, it will be you. It's unimaginable horror and horror, and the things he does will definitely exceed your cognition.

Fifth, men who have no ambition and rely on women to support themselves.

In this world, who doesn’t want to live a good life? It’s just that some people will do it through their own efforts, while others are always waiting for pie to fall from the sky. From the moment a man relies on women to support himself, he has given up his dignity as a man. From the moment he completely changes his attitude to take it for granted, it is a sign that he has fallen. Slowly, he will enjoy the comfort in front of him very much, just like a domesticated animal. Years of comfort have worn away all his nature and ambition. If a man truly loves you, he will definitely work harder, and then want to use his own efforts to create a happier life for you. It also means that a man who is a free man must not really love you. At the very least, in his eyes, you are not a lover or a responsibility, but a free cash machine.

What kind of man should a woman not marry?

1. A man who has little education and a lot of money

Men who have little education and a lot of money are always lacking In terms of foundation, they need long-term systematic study and cultivation to get something that enriches their hearts. It is not a problem that more money can solve. It requires long-term and continuous efforts to create it. If a man has little education and plenty of money, it is very easy for him to do some shocking things.

2. The Phoenix Man who was born in poverty but is proud of his success

Because they were once poor, they have more and higher pursuits than others, but they also have a feeling of "living in a cage for a long time" The impulse to "return to nature" can easily lead to behavior that forgets one's roots and is easily tempted by the outside world.

3. Men with special professional backgrounds

Special professions have more or less opportunities to contact women, and these women are divided into excellent and not excellent groups. At the same time, there are also differences in character. I don’t say whether it is the man’s fault or the woman’s right. It is just an atmosphere, an environment or a concept that always makes us regard cheating as a common occurrence in very ordinary daily life.

4. Men who have rich sexual experience and feel good about themselves

People who have rich sexual experience indicate that they have a rich love history. Such men will always have some tricks and want to be at ease. It’s not easy. They seem to have “romance” in their genes, so women should pay more attention in this regard.