So how to make friends carefully in the workplace and protect yourself from routine?
Master the basic principle of making friends in the workplace: classification by function.
"friends" category
1. Value: This kind of friends are generally similar to your rank, mostly in the same department, and everyone is in the same boat. You can complain about each other's work and provide emotional value for each other.
2. Risk: Usually you are also a direct competitor. Please keep this in mind. Don't be too explicit, it's important to spit and complain to each other.
3.*** Win: Because the situation is similar, everyone can exchange needed goods and enjoy information, so as to better survive in this company.
2. teacher occupation category
1. Value: This kind of friend is usually your superior, and his experience and professionalism will be a good indicator for you. Having such a friend is equivalent to stepping on someone else's shoulder.
2. Risk: You can't beat such people in theory. You need to avoid being used. Always remember, never give trust wholeheartedly. Even friends should pay attention to self-protection.
3.*** Win: What the other party can provide you is experience value and even resource value. What you can offer each other is to create value, and some fresh ideas collide with each other in different growth environments; And emotional value. There is no denying that many people have the habit of being good teachers. What you need to do is to learn knowledge and experience that is beneficial to you.
Three. The category of "mutual utilization"
1. Value: Most of these friends are cooperative with you. By exchanging information and enjoying it properly, we can cooperate better; Moreover, everyone is in the same field, and they can also exchange industry information and seize the dividend of resource integration.
2. Risk: You should know what information you can give and what information you can't disclose. Even friends should have a bottom line. This is respect for your work. There is also to avoid spitting and complaining about your company. We have a complicated cooperative relationship, get to know each other and avoid any embarrassing incidents.
3.*** Win: Sharing resources in different positions can bring new inspiration and opportunities to each other and help improve each other's situation. And even if we change our working environment, there are still many opportunities for cooperation. This is why many friends have many roads.
According to this classification, friends are not teaching you tricks or insincerity, but letting you recognize the facts. Besides students and friends, the friendship of adults is to weigh the pros and cons. What is the need for friends who are not beneficial to each other to intersect?
Only by making friends with purpose and reservation can we win, which is beneficial to everyone. Moreover, the relationship has further developed, and many friends in life can understand each other's situation and support each other. Why not?