It's not that people are unpopular, but that withdrawn people don't like to communicate with others, so they will feel this way, and others will be afraid to approach you because of you, so if we want to change this situation, we must change our personality, because withdrawn people will avoid it wherever they go, which makes people feel chilly.

Therefore, only by changing your personality and improving your communication skills can you have a better popularity. Because everyone likes to get in touch with extroverts, your personality will only make others feel that you are one of their own, and everyone will not want to get in touch with you. Therefore, if you want to have a good popularity, the most important thing is to make yourself better and make your personality more cheerful.

Because most of us have come into contact with withdrawn people, our feeling is that it is difficult to get in touch with them, and those people are too lazy to talk. Who can stand it? So if you want to have a good popularity, the most important thing is to change yourself. This is really important, because if you don't change yourself, then others will never dare to approach you, and many people are indifferent to this type of people.

So we'd better adjust our behavior and mentality slowly, don't say that we are afraid of what we do, and don't think it is a very troublesome thing to communicate with others. In fact, when you really open your heart, you will find that friends are really super good creatures, sometimes even closer than lovers. So if we don't open our hearts, how can others come in?