They say I look like an old man, both in appearance and in action. Although there are some exaggerated elements, I look about 20 years older than my actual age, just like a bad old man in his fifties. So I am always regarded as an uncle by others, especially girls.

When I first came out to work, I also talked about two girlfriends, but they broke up after only talking to me for half a month. Even if they go out on a date, they will keep a certain distance from me and ask me not to touch anything. Asked why, they said I looked like a middle-aged man in his forties, and the feeling of two people together was like being imprisoned.

Later, I didn't want to fall in love anymore, and I didn't even want to go out arm in arm with me. What qualities can I have? So I've been single for five years and have been addicted to my work, and I don't want to talk to the opposite sex. The energetic young man lost interest in women. No wonder they say my mind has become like an old man.

After a while, my colleagues gave me a companion when I was addicted to work, and left me an intention to make friends on it. When I came to my senses, he said that there were already more than a dozen girls waiting for me to choose.

I said I didn't believe it at all. How can a girl have a crush on me? Even if you have a crush on me, you will eventually dump me like the first two girls. Colleagues say just try, anyway, you don't suffer. I nodded in agreement, and after some selection, I chose one of them as my chat object.

Colleagues are right. The girl I choose doesn't dislike me, because she likes mature and attractive men and doesn't like those childish boys. She always feels that they are insecure.