First, learn to adjust your mentality. Don't regret your decision. Anyway, it was your original decision. Even if it's not satisfactory, you should think more about the good side of this decision, because many decisions can't be turned back. Always thinking about it will only increase your troubles rather than improve them.

Secondly, learn to adjust your plan. The idea of down payment is based on my last job. Since I changed my job, it is difficult to realize the down payment on schedule in my current job, so I have to adjust it in time, otherwise the pressure will drag me down.

Finally, learn to adjust habits, try to expand the scope of communication or find ways to relax yourself (sports, entertainment, shopping as long as it suits you) to relieve stress, knowing that if you only bear the pressure and don't release it, you will collapse one day. In addition, communicate with your husband more. Husband and wife should share with each other and care for each other even if they are not around. It is good for individuals and families to share good and bad things with each other.