When a person can have several sincere and long-term friends in the world, it is undoubtedly a great blessing in life.
But what I want to remind you here is that for an ordinary person, especially in old age, you should have a rational and sober attitude towards friendship and not be too blind.
Sixty years old, it is best not to get too close to friends around you.
The reason why the old people are not allowed to get too close to their friends here is actually to hope that the old people can grasp an objective and suitable scale in friendship, not to let the old people not be friends, but to treat friendship more objectively and rationally.
My friend's neighbor Uncle Wang is a very cheerful and optimistic person. He is always enthusiastic and easy to make friends. He is over 60 years old, but he often leads his friends to have lively parties at home.
Then, to Uncle Wang's surprise, a so-called friend who had known him for a short time found that his economic conditions were good, so he introduced him to a friend who was doing fund-raising.
Under the rhetoric of the other party, Uncle Wang couldn't resist the temptation to invest 200,000 yuan. As a result, not long after raising funds, this so-called friend had an accident and could not be contacted again. Later, Uncle Wang learned that this person had been suspected of illegal fund-raising and cheated many people.
From Uncle Wang's story, we should remind the elderly that in their old age, we should pay special attention to being cautious in making friends and not getting too close to friends around us, so as not to expose wealth and cause unnecessary losses.
Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages, and no one is perfect, so as trustworthy and long-term friends, each other may understand each other's weaknesses and tolerate each other.
However, if you get too close to your friends, sometimes some of their shortcomings will make you more and more uncomfortable and unbearable. Sometimes, if these lead to unnecessary quarrels, it will hurt years of friendship.
So why do you say "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water"? In fact, even the best friends should keep a certain distance, so as not to hurt each other because they are too close.
This is especially true for people over 60. At this stage, a quiet and peaceful life for the elderly is actually the most suitable. Don't disturb your quiet life because of some troubles and confusion in dealing with people.
Finally, there are always all kinds of people in this world, and the reality is sometimes complicated. There are always some people who are good at getting and using others.
Even friendship is a resource that they can use in their hearts.
In the years to come, if you lose certain boundaries with your friends and get too close.
Sometimes you can't help but give in to each other, especially when a good friend asks you to provide him with some convenient resources.
Many people make mistakes in real life, often because of friends.
When the principle faces the challenge of friendship, how to grasp oneself has become a difficult thing for many people to choose.
But in fact, no matter how deep the friendship is, one should always keep a clear head and maintain the necessary principles of life, especially when it comes to some legal issues.
In fact, as ordinary people, we should be wary of friends using each other's feelings. Don't think that just because you are an acquaintance and a good friend, you can give up some principles, which not only harms your friends, but also harms yourself.
In fact, it is of great benefit to the elderly to master certain principles and keep a certain distance in the grasp of friendship in their later years, so that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.
Understand the above three truths, in fact, you will understand how to arrange your life and how to treat family, love and friendship.
When you grasp these emotions in your life and always keep your own life principles, then your old age will be very peaceful.
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