In the past, the patriarchal ideology was thorough, which made people full of resistance. Even if we didn't struggle to escape from the quagmire in the end, the direction is clear and it is the general trend of history. It is desirable that women need the same basic rights and freedoms as men.
Now we stand at the crossroads of the times, and this pure patriarchal ideology begins to uncover layers of shells like onions, leaving behind the most essential features: spiritual neglect and degradation. Give a set of examples:
You are a sister. You and your brother are only one and a half years apart. Everyone knows why the age gap between you is so small, and you know it yourself. Nobody told you.
At family gatherings, everyone praises his brother for his cuteness, initiative, flexibility and intelligence, but never asks you about the scores of key high schools. They said with their brother's messy grades: boys have great stamina, and when the time comes, girls can make a difference as long as they work hard, study and help their brother;
When you come home from school, you look at the piles of snack bags in the trash can and ask your mother. My mother said with a smile, your brother said he would leave it for you, and it's all in his stomach. You went back to your room silently.
Parents go out to socialize, cook, wash clothes and clean. Mom only arranged for you to do it, and my brother played on the sofa all day.
One day, I found that my brother's name was written behind two houses at home, and the homestead in the village was not for you;
Feel free to go in and out of your room and look through your books and personal belongings;
Boredom begins to degrade you;
When I got home, there were snacks in the drawer of my room, which I just bought for you secretly.
Maybe you can't feel the real suffocation from my childish and pale words. This kind of suffocation means that when you feel that your parents are deeply trapped in your life, you will think of their kindness to yourself. Sometimes they are really nice to me, just like domestic violence. You trust them again and again and are disappointed again and again.
They seem to have been baptized, and they seem to be the same. This evolved "new form of expression and way of thinking that favors boys over girls" caught the girl's footsteps: escape? They're not that serious, are they? Live for others all your life.
Those parents seem to have sprayed perfume on their conscience. I always have a flat bowl of water. Am I biased? I didn't knead the flour and water, but isn't it too much for me to turn her into a golden cake?
I don't think my parents value boys at all. Although the property and house at home are left to my younger brother, which is also a traditional tradition, I should have given my parents nothing less, and I have never asked my parents for any property! The love my parents gave me since I was a child made me feel safe! I'm already satisfied!
Elder sister, the eldest in the family, and younger sister and younger brother below. I don't feel any different with my sister. It's really different after having a brother. My brother was the first to eat. The older I get, the more I feel that my eldest brother has been treated unfairly. Sometimes I hate that my sister and brother robbed me of my love, but my parents still love me, that is, they don't live together after marriage. I seem to feel that this love is slowly growing.