If you use WeChat, so will your friends and colleagues. Generally speaking, you only use it after you get to know each other. The circle of friends is suitable for self-worth display.

You can establish a sense of connection with girls. For example, if you send a photo of a trip, girls who have been to that place will naturally have a sense of connection with you.

Friends circle can also improve girls' trust in you, because it shows your usual life and is more intimate.

Wechat voice chat can also increase your familiarity.

Momo is a good way to meet strange girls quickly. It has a photo wall that can hold 8 photos. You can attract girls from many angles, because girls can know who you are after seeing your photos, and you can show your charm through photos.

I asked a pretty girl before, if a man greets you on a stranger, what does he say before you respond to him. She told me that she wouldn't pay special attention to what the man gave her, she would only look at whether his head and pictures were handsome or not.

Therefore, Momo also needs to establish a good first impression.

There are six factors that affect the success or failure of Momo's friends:

The first factor: is the girl's current state lovelorn, bored, sad, or just hanging there? We can't change this factor.

So we are mainly concerned about the next six factors.

The second factor: Momo's avatar, if your avatar is so bad that girls are not interested, then she won't even look at you and just delete it.

I suggest you use a positive avatar to be happy and confident.

The third factor: Mo Mo's photo wall. It can show your value and girls can find some connections from it. The exhibition includes: life exhibition, such as where you have been, or you like some extreme sports (such as bungee jumping and rock climbing). You put these photos on it to show your life;

Value display: For example, you can take a photo with your car or villa and show your value instantly. You can also take photos in high-end restaurants and bars.

Mood display: It's better to take photos of your happiness or embarrassment with friends. For example, if you and your friends grab something to eat in a high-end restaurant and suddenly find that your friend took a picture of you, such a picture will be more realistic.

Put a few photos of each of the above three types, not all of them.

There are several points to pay attention to in Momo's photo wall. The photo wall can hold 8 photos, but we usually put 6-7 photos, leaving a little space, because it will make people feel a little too full;

Secondly, don't send photos with bad background, such as unfinished dormitory, toilet and just waking up, and photos that are too blurred are not good, because others will think that the pixel of your mobile phone or camera is too low, which is not conducive to shaping a positive image.

The fourth factor: Momo's name, choose many names, and don't use some non-mainstream names to make others look strange. You can even use your real name, or English name.

The fifth factor: Mo Mo's signature.

Two common modes:

One is the display of state: for example, writing directly in happiness; For example, do not forget the original intention and enjoy the present; Just choose the right signature according to your own level, don't pretend to be profound.

The other is the display of value: such as writing photographers, third-rate magicians, amateur psychologists and professional product managers. You can express your hobby and occupation in one sentence.

The sixth factor: Mo Mo's personal description: make some consistent supplements to his photos and signatures. For example, if you put photos of your trip, you can add places you have been.

I suggest that your personal explanation be as simple as possible, and don't write too much, because writing too much is easy to be found by others.

Most importantly, whether it is a photo or a personal description, everyone must be real, such as taking a photo with a car. If you don't have a car, don't look for someone else's car to take pictures, which is not conducive to your personal growth. We hope everyone can dig out the value from their true selves. If girls are better than you, you should constantly improve yourself and improve your abilities in all aspects. Only in this way can we be truly responsible for ourselves and girls.

Now let's talk about the opening remarks of Momo's greetings:

After our repeated experiments, we found that it is easy to get a response if these factors that leave a first impression are done.

There are several ways to say hello on Mo Mo:

The first way: send only one expression or picture.

For example, send a smiling face, because at this time the girl will look at your photos and information, and if she is interested in you, she will reply to you; If she doesn't reply to you, it means that she is not interested in you, and you should change your goal. Because there are so many girls who are strangers, don't be too entangled.

The second way: high-profile opening.

Basically, girls can respond, but the follow-up chat skills are more demanding, such as "Hey, why are you here?" "I think you are strange" or "Is that you?" You need to have good adaptability in the later chat, which is not recommended by novices.

The third way: get to the point.

Find topics from the target girl's data, such as photos of girls wearing beautiful clothes, "I think you look good in red", or watch her go to Sanya, "I have been to Sanya, where the weather is really hot".

After greeting, our purpose is to receive the phone number and invitation.

The principle is direct and decisive, because there are many strange girls, and a girl is likely to have many boys to chat with her, so you should not spend too much time.

Step 1: Send a smiling face. The average girl will reply with a smile, or "Hello", or a question mark, or she will reply to you according to your photo information. In a word, if she answers you, it will break the ice.

Step 2: Get to the point and comment on her photo and signature. "I think your second photo is beautifully dressed", "I think you should be a very friendly person" and "I think your hat in the third photo is very nice". At this time, girls will usually reply you with "thank you" and so on.

Step 3: Show the value, for example, "I just came from Hainan to travel. I thought you were friendly when I saw you just now. Let's say hello. Where do you usually like to go? " .

The overall structure is that you provide some information about yourself or your value point, and then ask each other a question.

Step 4: Invite, such as "I think we are very close, and we can come out to play together when we have the opportunity".

Step 5: If the girl doesn't agree, don't worry, change a goal decisively. If the girl is a little hesitant, reply "Let's see", you can say "What's your phone number, and we'll contact you then". If the girl doesn't agree, you can send your number first, and then ask for her phone number, because Momo's main purpose is to receive the number, so don't spend too much time.

If you really like someone, but she won't give her phone number, you can also ask for her WeChat. Wechat is suitable for long-term communication. You can send "This is my WeChat. I rarely use Momo, and we can chat on WeChat. "

The above five steps are the overall framework of Momo chat. You can say it more appropriately, but the principle is direct and don't beat around the bush. What everyone has to do is to receive the girl's number as soon as possible.

After the girl gives you the number, you send your name. At this time, girls will usually reply to you, and you will reply to her, "When are you usually free?" If she is willing to give you the number, she will usually call you back and say when she will be free, so that you can say "I'll call you then", and then if you make an appointment two days later, you can call or send a message to her one day in advance to establish a sense of contact.

If you receive WeChat, then you should be a circle of friends on WeChat. After receiving WeChat, it is best not to chat with her on the first day, which will slightly reduce your sense of demand. We will tell you how to chat in future programs.

So how do you make girls interested in you without chatting with them?

This is a display through a circle of friends.

In fact, the method is similar to Mo Mo's photo wall display. You can learn from the well-developed circle of friends among your friends.

You can also keep some diaries in the space and share them with your friends. The contents of the diary should be storytelling, attractive and relevant to you.

If your WeChat circle of friends is doing well and the girl is interested, she will call you back, and you can chat with her and talk about the places she is interested in. After the chat, you can ask her when she is free and then invite her.

You don't need to talk a lot, because you can receive many girls' numbers through the methods we talked about in these issues, so if you don't particularly like each other, you don't need to spend too much time chatting specially, because your purpose is to invite.

Brush the sense of existence on WeChat regularly. You can send a circle of friends every few days, or send them to dozens of girls in groups, such as "I didn't expect the beef noodles here to be so delicious." Send it in a sharing tone to arouse the curiosity of girls. If she replies to you, you can continue to chat with her.

In short, as long as you are willing to take action, I believe you can quickly expand your female resource circle.