Now there are many online dating chat platforms, and many single men and women want to get rid of orders through dating, but they don't know what to talk about. The following are some topics I have arranged for dating chat, which can avoid the embarrassment of dating silence.
Dating and chatting with friends 1 First of all, what do you want to talk about when you make friends?
1, current situation
No matter in daily life or online blind date, the first thing to do in making friends and dating is to master each other's basic information, but when you ask very rudely, it will make the other party feel that your purpose of making friends is too obvious, which will lead to resistance. In the blind date chat method, the first thing you have to tell everyone is a conversation with high emotional intelligence, so don't say what you want to say, ask in an orderly way. The conversation of EQ begins.
2. Special food
Everyone is asking about dating and chatting. In fact, there are so many diners, even if they are not diners, they have no resistance to delicious special foods. Therefore, like beautiful scenery, special cuisine is a pleasant topic for discussion. During the whole dating and chatting process, if you are willing to get the other person's favor, take her to search for special food in big cities. If one meal is not good, you can eat ten meals. I don't think anyone will object.
3. At work
In the whole blind date process, people often want to know how the other person's economic development level is, but when you ask the other person's salary immediately, it is not good, and it is very easy to make small talk more and more embarrassing. You can tactfully understand each other's job types and their situation at work, and grasp each other's economic development from the aspects of manufacturing, level and satisfaction at work.
4. Hobbies
What she likes, she will be full of interest in this topic discussion, so people often see two people with similar interests in daily life, and their emotional connection is very close. Friends and blind date are the same, and they are willing to go further with each other and improve their blind date pass rate. Why not learn to go with the flow and talk to each other about people and things that she is very interested in? I think the other person's friendliness to you will be greatly increased.
Step 5 invite
Even if we are going to have a blind date on the premise of saying goodbye to singles, let's not forget this ultimate goal. You can definitely send an invitation at the same time as chatting. When the distance between two people comes, you will have a chance. You can talk to her about preparation and make an invitation without knowing it, but don't rush it, it will scare her. But don't worry, if she is happy, she will stay with us well and it is not easy to refuse you casually. Therefore, the blind date obviously inadvertently invited to meet again. For example, when it comes to delicious food, you can say that people can add a good friend and I'll eat with you then. Such an invitation is irresistible and does not conflict.
Dating and dating chat 2 dating and dating chat topics
What's the topic of dating? 1. What is the proudest thing you have done?
Although this question sounds like an interview, most people want to show off their great achievements to some extent. It's easy to open each other's chatterboxes. What is important is that this question can help you quickly know whether the three views of the blind date are consistent with you and whether the magnetic field of the blind date is consistent with yourself, so as to quickly distinguish whether the blind date is worthy of further understanding.
What's the topic of dating? 2. How was your day? What have you been up to recently?
These are very basic classic questions, but they are also among the best. When two strangers meet for the first time, the most important thing is to find their similarities, discuss their daily activities, and understand each other's daily life style and entertainment style through simple topics. Then you can find the same hobbies from each other's answers, and then start the topic.
If you have a long vacation, where do you want to go most?
This question can clearly understand whether the other person loves to travel and where his hobbies are. For example, the blind date prefers some adventurous outdoor activities such as camping activities, or enjoys herself directly in a five-star hotel, or she likes to see and understand the world.
What's the topic of dating? What is the boldest thing you have done so far?
Even extroverts may feel shy and embarrassed on the first date. But with this topic, you can let new friends tell their stories in a retrospective way, which is usually very interesting and fresh, especially to solve the embarrassing scene of the first date. Then you can share the boldest thing you have done, let time slip away unconsciously in the story sharing, and you may still feel unfinished when you leave.
What's the topic of dating? 5. Do you like cats or dogs?
Many people don't agree with this, but what you don't know is that people have been quietly divided into "cat pie" or "dog pie". It is generally difficult for people to understand why the other party likes cats or dogs so much. Studies have shown that "dog" people are generally more energetic, while "cat" people are relatively introverted and sensitive. Therefore, we can preliminarily infer the character of the blind date through this.
What's the topic of dating? 6. What kind of relationship are you looking for recently?
Do you want to find a stable partner or make new friends? Although this question is abrupt and private, it is better to ask it clearly to avoid misunderstanding and hurt each other's feelings. If two people have different goals, there is no need to spend time and money.