I saw a very interesting question raised by netizens: "How can I analyze and determine whether the friend I just added is single through WeChat?"

We assume this I have just added a friend who I just met through the Internet, and I know nothing about this friend’s background.

So judging from what you want to confirm, it seems that you want to find a single person of the opposite sex to develop a romantic relationship.

How to judge through WeChat chat?

1. First collect the other party’s basic information

Since you are a netizen, you will judge his information through text. You can first try to collect information about the other party through persona.

Suppose you want to draw a painting and give it to the other person. The painting must contain the person's image and life scenes. So in order to meet the materials needed for the painting, you must first understand the other person's age, height, appearance, work, family environment, etc. These are the basic information you can understand.

Of course, when collecting the other party’s basic information, you must pay attention to your communication methods and never make the other party feel like they are being interrogated. At the same time, you can also exchange your own information with the other party. Let the other person get to know you and pave the way for a romantic relationship in the future.

Online dating is really successful, so early understanding and information exchange is the first step towards success.

2. Make assumptions and verify them

After you know the other person’s age and basic life background, you can use common sense to make assumptions. For example, a 28-year-old boy has no hobbies after get off work and likes to stay at home and read comics. Then you can assume he is single. Then verify it by asking some questions.

For example: I know that some comic peripheral products are very cute. If you like comics so much, you probably have collected a lot of comic peripherals. Have you ever tried giving cute peripheral dolls as gifts to the girl you like?

If you want to flirt with a girl, then after understanding the girl's daily life, you can find opportunities to verify it. For example, a girl complains to you: "Now the couriers are not willing to deliver to your door. I have to pick it up at the gate of the community. It's so annoying." You can take the opportunity to ask: "You are so popular. There must be many guys who are willing to give me a shout." I'm here to help you." The girl will be humble and say, "No matter how popular you are, you don't have to rely on yourself." Then you can step forward and say, "I beg for a chance to help you move express delivery."

It is generally not recommended to ask directly: "Do you have a boyfriend? Are you still single?" This kind of question will make the other party feel that your emotional intelligence is very low or your purpose is too strong, resulting in a lack of interest in you. Moreover, the authenticity of the information obtained through such "direct questions and answers" is also questionable.

3. Seeing is believing, don’t fall in love with your own imagination

Online dating is very beautiful, because distance allows you to generate more associations, making an imperfect partner feel like you It becomes perfect in your imagination. And these associations of yours are based on your needs, so they will be very attractive.

For example, you like a girl who can cook, because in your ideal future marriage, your wife can take care of the housework and take care of your stomach. So when the girl you are dating online shows off a tomato scrambled egg you made, you will easily associate this girl with the role of your future ideal wife, and thus fall in love with this girl even more deeply in your heart. Famous female netizen. As everyone knows, this female netizen just took pictures of the food cooked by her roommate and posted it in her circle of friends to "show off" her craftsmanship.

Finally, if the other person is deliberately trying to deceive you, he will always have a way to circumvent your temptation. A rural girl once met a coal boss who claimed to be unmarried online. After making several beautiful promises to the girl, the girl secretly took the spare cash her mother kept at home and bought a train ticket despite her family's objections. I went directly to the coal boss's city to meet him. After the meeting, the girl saw that the coal boss looked similar to the one in the photo, which was quite pleasing to the eye.

After that, the coal boss tricked the girl, invited her to dinner, and arranged accommodation. After a few days, they were like a couple.

Every time the girl asked to meet Boss Mei’s family or let Boss Mei meet his parents, Boss Mei would always use various explanations and reasons to excuse her. The girl soon became pregnant and proposed to marry the coal boss. At this time, the coal boss showed his cards to the girl, saying that he already had a family and was the father of three children, so it was impossible for him to give the girl an explanation.

Knowing that she had been deceived, the girl went home in despair and wanted her parents to give her advice. As a result, her family did not accept her. The girl’s mother emotionally reprimanded her: "You are so shameful, why don't you die?" ?”, the girl ran out crying, and the villagers found her body in the river the next day.

There are definitely risks in making friends online. The above three tips can be used as the most basic ways to prevent fraud. The ultimate trick to prevent fraud is to stick to your own bottom line and not be trapped by the false vision promised by the other party.

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