I can forgive him for having a low EQ, but it's the first time I've met someone like him who has lived for more than 20 years.
Most importantly, his low EQ is manifested in his feelings for his friends.
He thinks he respects his friends, but in fact, that's just his own opinion. Whether he respects them or not depends on the friends he used to associate with. I once asked my friends who had thought about him, and they all said that he had low emotional intelligence and could do nothing. At first, I didn't believe this sentence. After all, it was just hearsay, and most of the hearsay was false, so I didn't care much and began to make friends with the child who was said to have low emotional intelligence.
Later, I felt that his emotional intelligence was low because of one thing. At that time, it was the busy farming season, and my family was in the countryside. There are several acres of land where corn and peanuts are grown. When my family came back from picking peanuts, I picked peanuts at the door with my family. At this time, he came by on a motorcycle, took out his mobile phone and played songs, regardless of the hard work of my family and me picking peanuts there, and then he said something stupid. Will you go out to play later?
Hearing this, I was quite angry at that time. Can't you see I'm busy working with my family? It was a long look, but I didn't say these words to him after all. Although they reached my mouth, I finally swallowed them. Yes, I'm actually very tolerant.
I didn't answer him at that time, just saying, if you want to play, you can play alone. I am still busy. But at this time, he was a good boy, grabbed my peanuts and peeled them. I was very surprised at what he did, but he gave up in less than five minutes. Because he peeled peanuts for fun. Eat and peel ...
This is the person with low emotional intelligence that I have ever met, and there is no one.