One: It’s because you live a sober life, see clearly the essence of getting along with others, and will no longer blindly follow the trend and invest to make yourself suffer big losses
There are several things in daily life , because you trust some good friends too much, so that you are rejected? Some of the damage is serious and you can learn to let it go quickly, while some are bigger and you may not be able to come back for half your life. For example, if you start a business with a friend, you generously support him and approve of him without warning, but in the end he framed you and you even lost everything.
This is the fact of human nature in the face of interests. Fortunately, after you have been hurt, you can wake up and you will no longer have too many expectations for your relationship. At this time, you will also become more cautious than before and find it difficult to trust someone casually. This leads to fewer and fewer friends, and no one knows about them. They think you have low emotional intelligence and poor popularity. In fact, you have just seen the essence of getting along with others, become smarter, and understand. You don't really have to care what others think of you. People who care about you will naturally understand you. To people who don’t understand you, it’s meaningless to express it. Let everything take its course, and you will be able to live a more leisurely and comfortable life.
Two: It’s because you have a relatively complete concept and a strong heart. You no longer care about external comments and know how to be kind to yourself
Never underestimate a person who likes to be alone. . You think he is introverted and unpopular, but in fact it is just the opposite. They are a group of people who truly understand life, have high ideological awareness, and have strong hearts. When a person no longer cares about external comments, it shows that he understands the need to be kind to himself. He learned to ask from the heart rather than from the outside. When she gradually cares about her inner requirements, she will look down on people and things outside. What others think has nothing to do with him. The only thing he has to please and please is himself. In addition, living alone is a better period for appreciating a person.
In a noisy crowd, it is difficult to calm down, and your thinking is easily affected by others. If you blindly follow other people's opinions, you will live without any opinion or self over time. But one person is different. Living alone can give you peace and clarity. At this time, you are close to the end of your soul. You know what you want and how to make your life high-quality, rich, and meaningful. Even though most of them seem lonely, the concepts are interesting.
How many of them are really true to you? It is not uncommon in daily life to support enemies with sincerity. Always remember: low-quality social media is never as good as high-quality alone time. Try not to treat friends who cannot be sincere. Learn to enjoy being alone and gradually live alone. In turn, it is because you are a strong person on the inside, and you are strong on the inside.
After the age of 50, let yourself live a fulfilling life and stay sober. What kind of people are worth getting along with, and what kind of people must be separated, you must have a strong balance in your heart. At this time, the cost of your trial and error is already very high. Once you take some wrong steps, it may be difficult to turn back. Therefore, before that, it is not wrong for you to learn to let go of some useless social interactions. Don't worry about not having friends. Having good friends is good luck, but not having friends is common. After all, people live their whole lives alone, come and go alone, and everything they have in the middle is all luck.