Let's take a look at what it's like to steal a hukou book and respond to your girlfriend's license.
On September 26th, a video of "A man steals a household registration book and gets a certificate from his girlfriend with cancer" was circulated on the Internet. In the video, a man came to his hometown in Xuzhou, Jiangsu with his girlfriend suffering from cancer and sneaked into his home to steal the household registration book. However, this behavior has also been questioned by many netizens, who think it is unnecessary, and some netizens say it is a script.
On the morning of 29th, a reporter from xiaoxiang morning herald (reporting WeChat: xxcbbaoliao) contacted the woman involved. The woman said that the night they stole the household registration book, they were discovered by the man and mother. As for why she did this, the woman called it "young impulse" and "feeling cool". In response to online comments, the woman said that she was "just sharing her daily life" and "just be herself".
In the video, the woman and her boyfriend drove from Nanjing for more than 4 hours and arrived at their boyfriend's home in Xuzhou. The video said that "my boyfriend took me home to steal the household registration book in order to marry me, regardless of family opposition". The two arrived at Xuzhou's boyfriend's house at two o'clock in the morning and stole the household registration book in the loud snoring of their father.
In the woman's previous video, she introduced herself that on July 6 this year, at the age of 26, she was diagnosed with cancer. At that time, her boyfriend was 27 years old and met him in dating software. The video released by the woman shows that she has "papillary thyroid cancer". After learning that she had cancer, her boyfriend changed to a new house, constantly comforting her and looking for taboo food. For marriage, the woman said in the video that "the boyfriend's parents said to wait a little longer".
Two months later, her boyfriend took the woman to her hometown in Xuzhou to "steal the household registration book". The woman told xiaoxiang morning herald that they were found stealing the household registration book that night, and they also thought it was not good to do so, so they returned the household registration book. But her boyfriend's parents said to her, "You can tell me and I'll give it to you."
"We are going to get married in the future." The woman said frankly that in fact, her boyfriend knew that the family would not disagree, otherwise he would not dare to do so. The reason why I will steal the hukou book is just because I am young and impulsive, I think I am cool, and I watch too many TV dramas. The woman said that he thought her boyfriend was determined to marry her.
Of course, the behavior of "stealing household registration books" has also caused heated discussion among many netizens. Some netizens expressed their blessings; Some netizens think that her boyfriend's behavior is inappropriate. If you want to get married, you can speak frankly, so you don't have to reinvent the wheel. Some netizens also think that it is a self-directed and self-acting play, with the purpose of obtaining traffic.
In this regard, the woman responded to a reporter in xiaoxiang morning herald, saying that the purpose of sending the video was just to share her daily life with her boyfriend, and commented that netizens could only say that they could be themselves. "What I said is a true story. I live my own life and don't care what others say. " The woman said she just wanted to record a good life.
Xiaoxiang morning herald reporter Zheng Xu
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Stealing the account book and responding to the girlfriend's license related reading:
I once stole the household registration book and my boyfriend's license. Now, I regret not listening to my mother.
Author: Doby
When I was in love with my husband, I took him home to meet my parents for the first time.
My mother said: not good.
Because my husband's family conditions are really sad, a single-parent family with four walls, his parents divorced early and his mother remarried, so he lives with his father-in-law.
Later, my father-in-law got married again, and my stepmother was in charge.
My mother wouldn't let me jump into the fire pit, and told me that it was unlucky not to get married in beginning of spring. She also asked relatives to introduce me to others.
However, at that time, I didn't listen and fell in love. While she was not at home, I secretly took the household registration book and ran to get the certificate with my boyfriend. I didn't inform both parents until I got it.
Although my marriage is developing in the direction I want, it doesn't mean my marriage is good.
I broke my parents' hearts and failed their expectations.
Girls, don't do this to hurt your mother for the sake of men's "good" like me.
In this world, only parents really love you and don't ask for anything in return.
Because the wine was served after obtaining the license, the follow-up practice of my husband's family still made me feel very angry. They want to save money.
After marriage, my in-laws and relatives also suppressed me because of my own gifts and laughed at me behind my back.
Unfortunately, at that time, I was naive and took love as everything. I didn't know that people can change, so I had to hit my head against the wall to understand my parents' intentions.
I don't want to love now and I don't want to. It is serious to raise children well.
Girl, if you haven't entered the besieged city yet, think more and don't panic to get the certificate.
Marriage is the same promotion for two people, but if one person is unreliable, marriage cannot be concluded.
If men have these three behaviors before marriage, then women should be careful. Even if he is kind to you, his married life may be in trouble.
First, the mentality is immature and unstable.
In the movie "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years", there was a line that made many people cry: "I was so naive, so I chased you for so long!"
The reason why the audience was moved was because of the "childish power" and the persistence and courage of not hitting the south wall and not looking back.
But in real life, a naive man will definitely be a disaster for women. Men can be naive to a certain extent, but not too immature.
In fact, a woman can accept the romance and cuteness of a certain part of a man, but she hopes that a man can understand his inner needs and have a sense of responsibility for feelings and economy, so that he can become her reliance.
Being responsible and mature is one of the signs of men's maturity, and it is also the charm of women.
A man who is suitable for marriage is at least a man who does well. Marriage is not a child's play, it needs the synchronous matching of mentality and ability.
Second, retreat on major issues.
Once upon a time, there was a couple, who made a vow of eternal love.
However, faithful love can't resist the injury of a car accident.
On her way home from work, the girl was knocked down by a car and then run over by a motorcycle.
When the driver of the car saw it, he was afraid of losing a lot of money and chose to hit and run.
The owner of the motorcycle, conscious that he didn't escape, paid the girl a sum of money.
When the girl is lying in a coma in the hospital, the boy gives the biggest blow.
He secretly asked the attending doctor that the girl lost her right leg and had to rely on prosthetic limbs or crutches to spend her life.
He ran away after hearing this, fearing that his girlfriend would drag him down in the future, which exposed his true side.
Quickly blacked out the girl's mobile phone and took a necklace she gave her while she was still sleeping.
The person I love the most, not only didn't give timely help, but also gave a fatal blow.
We are long past the age of listening to love and don't believe in the promises made before and after.
If a person loves you, he won't be a deserter when he meets difficulties, and he won't back down when he meets great events.
Third, the ambition is big and the dream is empty.
This kind of man is too ambitious, regardless of his actual situation, and only wants to pursue a perfect life and a successful career.
They will arrange their lives fully according to the standards of the rich, and never miss work, socializing and entertainment.
But the biggest problem is: virtue is not worth it, ambition is great, talent is sparse, and there is a lack of real talent and practical learning.
They want to make friends with some senior officials, thinking that connections can change their destiny, so they fill their time with ineffective social interaction.
If you live with such a man for a long time, you will find that he is empty-handed and will not be down to earth. Such a man will never achieve anything in his life.
If you love someone, you have to accept all of them. If you marry a person, you marry his family.
If you can detect anything wrong with this man before marriage, don't think, "What if he changes after marriage?"
A good marriage is often practiced by two qualified people together, and you know your strengths and weaknesses through stumbling.
Observe more before marriage, and you will be happy after marriage.
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Author: Doby, concerned about the marriage between men and women.