Hehe, I think I'd better choose one I like best. It depends on which one you are most willing to love with your life; Which one are you most willing to pay unconditionally or even sacrifice for her? Which one makes you happiest? Or there is no one you love between them. It's just the vanity of human nature (just the weakness of human nature instead of scolding you) that makes you hallucinate and feel that you should or are born to love one of them. So you should get to know yourself and these two women. Maybe you find that they are not the people you love at all, so you can't choose, but you have to find the people you really love.

If these two are really the people you love, and you really don't know how to choose, then you choose the one that loves you the most. The person who loves you the most not only loves you, but also likes and cares about your friends and family. The person who loves you the most not only loves your advantages, but also accepts your shortcomings; People who love you the most will not only see your strengths, but also help you improve your weaknesses. So, you can keep the same distance from them first, and see who is the most patient first, because the person who really loves you will always wait for you, and even if you no longer belong to her, she will always bless you. You can expose your shortcomings at an appropriate time and see how they react. You can also talk about your friends and family in front of them and see their reactions. In short, I believe that the person who really loves you must know how to love you and make you happy, no matter how much you can give her, because the person who really loves you will be happy for your happiness.