Correctly handle the relationship between love and study. University is the golden age of human development, and it is also the time to study professional knowledge hard. At this time, if you neglect your studies because of love, you may lose big because of small things and reduce your competitiveness in entering the society in the future. Therefore, in this period, we should also consider studying while falling in love, and strive to improve ourselves to prepare for entering the society in the future. ,

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Learn how to love others. Because college life is more relaxed and there is more free time, it also provides convenience for college students to make friends. Therefore, in this period, you should seize the opportunity, know how to love others, learn how to love others, know how to express love in the right way, and learn to refuse when necessary, which will make you more mature.

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Dare to take responsibility in feelings. In a relationship, both sides should understand and respect each other. Take the initiative to take responsibility when encountering problems, rather than avoiding emotional difficulties. The more they avoid emotional problems, the more problems will accumulate and eventually their feelings will break down, so they should be solved in time. If the other party doesn't take the initiative, you should dare to take responsibility. Under your initiative, the other party will also be infected by you.

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Maintain appropriate independence. In feelings, some people will become overly dependent on each other, which is good to some extent, but long-term dependence on each other will easily make them lose themselves and some of their original charm, and at the same time, they will also make each other feel bored and the quality of their feelings will be long-term. Therefore, it is necessary to maintain appropriate independence in feelings, not to rely too much, and to have your own opinions, which may make feelings last longer.

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Don't force it. Some people often use some means of intimidation and inducement when chasing their favorite object, but this is not a charming performance. Sometimes making someone like you depends not on chasing, but on attracting them. Therefore, in the early days of love, I suggest you learn to show your strengths and strengths reasonably to attract each other, and don't force each other, so as to help you get happiness faster.

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Correctly treat setbacks in feelings. Now is the era of free love, the other party has the freedom to choose and not choose you, so when the other party doesn't choose you, you should learn to accept it, then understand what your shortcomings are and try to make up for them, so as to form a virtuous circle. Don't feel inferior, let alone complain. Keep a positive and optimistic attitude, you will become more attractive and attract more people to like you.

Matters needing attention

Love should be rational, not impulsive.