What should you do if you find your child secretly hiding a mobile phone?
If a child secretly brings a mobile phone to school once or twice, parents should go to the teacher with their child to sincerely admit their mistake. After all, children are still children, and it is normal to make mistakes occasionally. As long as the child realizes his mistake and reflects on it to the teacher, I believe the teacher will give the child a chance to change. However, if parents equip their children with mobile phones for a long time, it is their fault. The first person to criticize is the parents themselves. Primary and secondary schools generally have regulations that students are not allowed to bring mobile phones back to school. I believe every parent is aware of this regulation.
1. Children’s long-term exposure to mobile phones will definitely have a great impact on their learning. Children's self-control ability is limited, and the temptation on mobile phones is endless. Once addicted, it will have a great impact on their learning, life, and healthy growth.
2. If children face the mobile phone screen for a long time, their vision will be damaged and the chance of myopia will be greatly increased.
3. Some children bring mobile phones to school, which affects the learning of other children. They will secretly enter the world of mobile phones together.
4. Bad content on mobile phones will corrode children’s brains and mislead them. What should parents do if their children like to play with mobile phones?
1. Control the frequency of use.
It may be that after-school life is too monotonous, and parents do not have much time to accompany their children, so the children can only pass the time by playing games. It is also possible that they are busy and do not want the children to disturb them, so they directly give their children mobile phones. Play to distract. These are the direct factors that make children addicted to games. To solve this problem, we must first limit the time children spend playing mobile phones. Parents can set up some reward and punishment mechanisms, such as exam progress to allow more time to play mobile phones.
2. Play with your children on your mobile phone.
Participate in the child’s world and understand the games that the child plays. Parents can actively participate and “fight side by side” with the child. The child will feel that it is not more interesting to play with a mobile phone alone, but to interact with family members. What’s more interesting is that when parents stop playing games at this time, children will be more willing to cooperate.
3. Control children’s addictive personality.
When children grow up, their parents lack companionship, and their children have poor self-discipline and weak management skills. They need supervision from others to do anything, and their favorite entertainment also requires strong intervention from others to stop. It is the manifestation of the child’s addictive personality.
Parents can take the lead in setting an example. Parents are willing to put down their mobile phones and accompany their children. If their children are psychologically satisfied, mobile phone addiction will be reduced.
4. Take your children to participate in more extracurricular activities to enrich their lives.
Use activities instead of playing with mobile phones. Children playing with mobile phones all night are just too energetic. Parents can enroll their children in some interest classes to divert their children's interests and reduce their dependence on mobile phones; at the same time, bring more Children go out to exercise and make friends, allowing them to experience the fun of the real world.