Lover is the arrangement of the previous life,

Lover is the fusion of fate,

Lover is the destination of emotion.

Sometimes, when relatives get used to getting along, when lovers go far away or become lovers, when lovers are no longer in love, people often long for a true relationship. In the bustling streets, under the twinkling neon lights, in the lonely and silent fields, in the stormy season, I long for a person, a heart, and a love - What is a lover? There has never been a concrete answer, nor a unified image. A lover is a feeling, a lover is a yearning, a lover is a concern, a lover is a guard during the day, and a lover is a waiter at night. Lover is the sweetness of life.

What does it feel like to be a lover? No one can explain it clearly, it is sour, so sour it makes you helpless. It's sweet, so sweet that it makes you remember it. It's bitter, so bitter that it makes you cry. It's spicy, spicy enough to cheer you up. When you have a lover, you have all the flavors of life; when you have a lover, you have the entire emotional world. The interpersonal relationships in today's society are too complicated. Whether men or women want to find a lover, they must know the following examples: a man's impulse toward a woman stems from the temptation in perspective, the restlessness of the heart, the desire for greed, and the helplessness in boredom. Therefore, I often joke: "Men's vitality is stimulated by women." Men often show their most perfect side in front of the women they like. Equally: Women will also be charming, beautiful and cute because of the man they like. Women can be divided into three categories: one is for fun, such as those women who sell themselves, looking for excitement; the other is for appreciation, such as those educated and cultivated women who only enrich the spiritual world. Women who are friends; there is also a woman who is used for love, just like your lover, your lover. Men, when meeting a woman, should first use their brains to analyze rationally. You know this woman, she should belong to that type of woman, instead of blindly satisfying the desires of her lower body. What is the difference between this and animals in heat? Everyone likes to hear nice words, but bad words can make people think deeply. . Because when your body enters another woman's body, if you harm her in the future, she will not be the only one crying, your heart will also be condemned by conscience and morality. Women look for a lover in order to find a man who can relax them, tolerate their nonsense, and act like a baby. He should be a man that she admires. When she is with him, she will have a kind of self-confidence that inspires her, and he will become My guide, life mentor, work supervisor, and emotional soothing hand. In short, whether you are with him or apart, as long as you think of him, you will have a solid feeling from the heart that this life is not in vain. . Men can also be classified: one type is those who seek passion or are cynical due to loneliness; the other type is those who seek spiritual destination and appreciate with heart, and only make friends to enrich the spiritual world. These are men with extraordinary qualities and ideological realm. Of course, this is Classes are rare beauties! If women meet this kind of man, they must cherish their life as they would a rare animal! No matter what it is, you should first use your brain to analyze it rationally. In the same way, women should remember when looking for a lover: 1. Irresponsible men are absolutely undesirable, and men who love just for sex are not desirable. 2. It is not advisable not to take feelings seriously. 3. It won't work if you're petty; you won't work if you have a bad temper; you won't work if you're too cowardly; you won't work if you're too presumptuous; you won't work if you're too greedy; and you won't work if you're too snobbish. Of course, these all depend on your requirements for your lover, and are not absolutely relative. For example: There is a man who is a well-educated person. It can be said that he is successful in his career, but his long-term monotonous lifestyle makes him long for a lover in his heart. By chance, he met a woman. After a few contacts, they lived together and became lovers. He thought that a romantic and sweet life would beckon to him from now on. Unexpectedly, one month's rent and his lover's pocket expenses were too much for him. He couldn't even go back and face his wife's accusations. After they lived together for a month, when he didn't feel the novelty brought by the extramarital affair, he hastily thought of ending the relationship.

When a friend asked him why he didn't think more carefully when accepting this woman, he said that he had never experienced it and didn't know! I don’t know, I haven’t experienced it. Is this the reason? In today's materialistic society, is there still a free lunch? If you want to accept a woman as your lover, it's like a man who married his second concubine in the past. Shouldn't he be responsible for her life? Once a woman gives her body and soul to a man, she owes you nothing. On the contrary, if you provoke her, you should bear the consequences of your impulse. If a good woman has no desires and needs and wants to be a man's lover, I think it will be easy to find a man! Even if a man has money, he may not be able to find a woman he truly likes and is suitable for! Someone asks: "Will you be my lover?" The common answer is: "Do you know what it means to be a lover? It means losing yourself." Being a lover means just one word: "wait". Wait for the man's call, wait for the man to stop being busy at work and go home to spend time with his wife and children, to pamper you. Lovers now are like concubines meeting the emperor in the past. Bitter and tired. This was more than ten years ago, and he was a man in his forties. Due to my career, I am basically away from home all year round. Women are also busy making a living while away from home. Back then, that man was considered a successful man. When he met the one he loved, he showed his love to her with his sincerity and actions, and finally got together. During those years when they lived together, that man was very fond of her. This woman and her family are very kind and manly. They dated for more than ten years, and they got along like a couple, but later they returned to their hometowns, and both of them kept the love in their hearts and turned it into beautiful memories. There was also a man who worked far away from his home. , he could only go home two or three times a year, and his salary was 1,500 per month. But he had a lover for 7 years, and this lover was 12 years younger than him. Just as he promised to his lover at the beginning: "I will treat you the same as I treat my wife. As long as I am here for one day, I will treat you well." In the past 7 years, he has done it. Every month, in addition to giving to his lover, In addition to living expenses and buying fruits and medicines. Whenever his lover's family is in need, he will try his best to help. Every year he spends five or six thousand yuan on his lover. This is not a small amount of money for a working man, but more importantly, he takes care of his lover's life in every possible way. What is a man? This is a man, a man who can love his lover as his wife. Only when a woman is the lover of such a man, her heart will always be peaceful and happy. It can be seen that if: When a woman is a man's lover, she must first understand the rules of the game and position herself correctly. Do your part well. It cannot affect his family and career. The only thing that can be done is to share his worries and provide spiritual comfort, and become a haven for men to take a short rest when they are tired. Since a woman can wait quietly for a man, wait. So, as a man, if you can't take the responsibility, don't find a lover. Don't think that if you choose to escape after doing it, your heart will be relieved. The emotions you once had, like the drugs you once took, will make you restless and leave a shadow on your heart for life. It's not that many men don't take responsibility, but they rush into bed with a woman before they are mentally prepared, thinking that they will be their lovers and they can have a lover. In fact, managing the relationship between lovers is like managing a marriage. It requires sincerity, patience, and perseverance. Only men with these three moods are worthy of finding a lover, and a true lover will always bring a feeling of warmth and ecstasy to a man. Not all women are suitable as lovers. A small-minded woman won't work; a hot-tempered woman won't work; a woman who's too gentle won't work; a woman who's too presumptuous won't work; a woman who's too greedy won't work; a woman who's too snobby won't work. When a man understands these principles when looking for a lover, he should rationally consider the temptation of a woman to him. Men who just want to play with women should not make promises or swear. That might hurt her a lot less. Women are stupid and care about men's so-called promises and vows. Humans are higher animals, animals with emotions. You can control your own animals, so what you do should be different from animals! Suppose you behave no differently than animals. Where is the joy, where is the intoxication, where is the eternity, where is the possession? Women are made of water, both soft and strong. Women are emotional and have love for men. A woman who truly understands self-esteem feels it with her heart. Once she gives her true feelings, her heart is fragile and uneasy. Men, when a woman truly gives herself to you, treat her well and don't give up easily. There is no perfect marriage between husband and wife, and there is no perfect lover.

When you have a lover, be patient and manage the relationship sincerely. A good lover is the motivation for a man's career and the source of his life. She will allow you to fly freely in life and work with ease. A woman who can be a lover is a good woman, and a man who can treat his lover well is a good man. Don't say that your life only belongs to your wife, because when you face the temptation from the outside world, you choose to avoid it. Everyone has their own different lifestyle. If you can't take the responsibility, don't find a lover. It's just to accumulate blessings and virtues for yourself in this life. In short, neither men nor women should cause harm to each other, if they can't do it. Just don't get involved in this kind of thing! These are just some common phenomena in today's society. I wish all my friends and friends a happy life!