You should probably know or analyze what kind of people the conflicting parties are. Some people just bully the weak and fear the hard. At this time, you have to be tough. For example, in class, the class cadres think that you don't talk much, think that you are good at bullying, and find something for you. If you bully her to her face once or twice, she will be much more honest. However, some people just eat soft and not hard. Like me, you work hard, and I work harder than you. Not a blind man. Under no circumstances should you lose your manners and manners.