"Because his thoughts are warm-hearted, it is not what others want, but the shackles of language and moral kidnapping. They constantly crossed the border with the so-called "warm-hearted" and hurt others unconsciously. "
There are such people:
They are very enthusiastic, but they don't know. They think they are kind-hearted, but they hurt people invisibly in "harmony" When they began to become "enthusiastic", the socialization of "suicide" began.
1. A well-meaning person crossing the line is offensive.
Good-hearted people who cross the border will always violate the autonomy of others, constantly express inappropriate views in other people's fields, and naked want to intimidate others to agree with you. Maybe we don't think our way of talking is violent, but language does often bring pain to ourselves and others.
You know, the real "for your own good" is not crossing the line, but restraint, not pointing fingers, but sincerity.
"People who don't understand current events will be very annoying. Everyone has privacy that they don't want people to touch. "
2. Excessive enthusiasm makes people hate doing things.
People can't just go beyond the boundaries of enthusiasm, blindly go beyond the boundaries, and don't over-fantasize about leaving at the right time, in order to truly fulfill the person you want to fulfill.
We hate excessive enthusiasm, because if the board doesn't hit them, they won't care if you are miserable.
They constantly use the so-called "warm heart" to break other people's rules, affect other people's lives, and often make people feel bored. You know, our beautiful world does not need excessive enthusiasm, but needs appropriate indifference.
Good social interaction is never a bad act of not knowing how to be measured and constantly crossing the line, but the right body, the right words and the right stop.
3. The highest social realm: touch and walk, advance and retreat moderately.
Appropriate restrictions are a sign of maturity. It knows how to keep the necessary distance between people. This distance means respecting each other as an independent personality, including respecting each other's right to be alone. Getting along with friends has never been a natural social interaction between adults. I respect your independence and you respect my choice. Keeping a sense of proportion between each other, being able to advance and retreat moderately, is also considered advanced, giving back friendship with just the right care, and gaining insight into the world with just the right enthusiasm, which is worthy of being the highest social interaction.