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When you are controlling in love, what behaviors do you have?
It's normal to have a desire for control in love, but it can't go beyond the normal range. The strong desire for control in love has the following three points. Excessive control is really unbearable.

I don't like you chatting with others and ignoring them.

A possessive man generally doesn't like his woman to go out to play or chat with others, especially when you are chatting happily with others and ignoring him. He is even more unhappy. He just wants to be with you, not with anyone else. This intense jealousy is a sign of his possessiveness.

Second, I can't let you leave his sight.

A possessive man can't wait to know everything about you, no matter big or small, he has a strong desire to know, even your privacy. Moreover, when you are crazy, he will track your whereabouts, hoping to keep an eye on you at all times and not let you stay away from your sight. This possessiveness transcends love and will definitely make the other person feel oppressed.

Third, no matter how big or small, I will help you make a decision.

A possessive man likes to help you make decisions, from daily dating to life planning, big and small, it seems that the initiative is always in his hands. Although sometimes it's manly for men to help you make decisions, it's really scary to help you decide whether it's small or big, and I feel like I don't have a sense of existence.

If the boyfriend is too controlling and insecure, we can give him a sense of security appropriately. However, women who are too possessive and controlling and close to madness cannot be ignored or indulged. If necessary, they should inform their parents and ask for help!