Is making friends repugnant to the same personality or attractive to different personalities?
many people may have these two types of friends around them, and they may or may not have considered them. Play when you can, and give it up if you can't.
Miss Enthusiasm also has two kinds of friends. As the name implies, Miss Enthusiasm is a very enthusiastic person. Personality is very lively, cheerful and outgoing, and people are very easy-going. People call it "social butterfly"
opposites repel each other?
Miss Enthusiasm has a friendship of ten years and is called "best friend". People often say that Miss Enthusiasm is such a lively and cheerful person, so must friends. On the contrary, Miss Enthusiasm's best friend (called "Miss Quiet") is quite different from her personality. A quiet lady likes to be quiet, unlike a warm lady. Usually, I don't like to shuttle between people, I don't like to talk, and I don't like to chat with people I don't know. You come, you come, you go or not. Will not take the initiative to make friends. The difference between the two personalities is enough to see. Sometimes Miss Enthusiasm invites Miss Quiet to travel, while Miss Quiet keeps Miss Enthusiasm away for various reasons. Use a derogatory term to describe it: "hot face sticks to cold ass." Sometimes Miss Enthusiasm is also very helpless. Although Miss Enthusiasm has no shortage of friends around her, it feels different to go out with her good friends. But this is not always the case. Sometimes, Miss Quiet will still agree to Miss Enthusiasm's request.
Miss Enthusiasm always says that Miss Quiet will be with her when she has a boyfriend, and she only wants to stay at home alone when she has no boyfriend.
This is one aspect of personality differences. Personality differences also determine behavior differences, and the behavior of two people will be different, which is similar to the opposite behavior. But sometimes they form complementary advantages, each with its own strengths and each with its own shortcomings. Just like a piece of positive and negative poles that attract ferromagnetism, only opposites can attract each other, but because of the opposite, opposites are incompatible.
the same personality attracts each other?
Miss Enthusiasm has another friend (called "Miss Cheerfulness"). Miss Cheerfulness is as enthusiastic, lively and cheerful as the name suggests. The two people are simply bole in entertainment and topics, and they never lack topics. When they travel, they must have each other's figures. Both of them are very happy and can play together in their respective circles. When two people are together, it's like Pandora's chatterbox, which can't be closed after being opened. Talk like a chatterbox. This is different from Miss Quiet, who is quieter, colder and less talkative. But on the other hand, because of the same personality, Miss Enthusiasm and Miss Cheerfulness are both stubborn and opinionated. When problems need to be solved, the two people will easily lead to disputes and cannot unify their opinions. If it's a bad temper, it's even worse to fight violence with violence.
so the same personality may not attract everywhere!
This is a philosophical question. What is the correct answer? There may not be a very standard answer.
There may still be many people who don't understand that the long-term and comfortable relationship between people depends on sex and attraction. Instead of oppression, bondage, flattery, and blind dedication and moral self-moving.
I hope you can find your own Good Friend.