Then you have to analyze why you refuse others. Is the other person not in line with their own aesthetics, or their own words do not want to fall in love, but it is normal to refuse others, but try to choose euphemism, otherwise the rejected person will also be greatly hit. If you habitually refuse the opposite sex who likes you, then being single for 20 years is actually suicide. If you feel that the boy who professes to you is not your type, then you can take the initiative to find a lover. Just like I was a real maternity solo 25 years ago, with few opposite sex around me, so I have never been confessed by others, and I dare not confess what I like. In the end, the stripper only found the object through the dating software that found the object. On it, many boys sent me messages, and in the long run, I was relieved. This software is really my gospel, otherwise I may still be single when I find someone around me.