First of all, I want to ask you, what kind of person is better than you? What kind of person is worse than you? In fact, we are all the same, it doesn't matter whether it is good or bad. You shouldn't divide people into three or six categories by your own standards. Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. It is important to know how to enjoy yourself and others. If you get along with people with this mentality, you will find that everyone has something you can learn and enjoy, or that everyone has something better than you, so you have no reason to look down on anyone. Of course, everyone has their own place. You, you don't look at Marx, Mao Zedong and Einstein. Great men are so tall that they have done worse things than you.
Second, people should have an inferiority complex. You can't exaggerate some advantages by yourself, such as learning from people who are better than you, or comprehensively evaluating people who are more beautiful than you. You will feel that in front of these people, that person looks down on you and doesn't want to talk to you. On the other hand, you will exaggerate some shortcomings, some people think it is good, you are worse than you, you will be proud in front of these people, or some people will look down on you. In my opinion, you are likely to look down on people who are uglier than you or worse than you to learn. At the same time, you also ignore the advantages of these people. In order to avoid being psychologically, we must learn to look at a person in an all-round way, and don't magnify the advantages of some people and the shortcomings of others. Please remember, "there must be a teacher in a threesome." Everyone has something to appreciate and learn.
Third, if you are really good and confident, you must be very modest and courteous and know how to respect others. Such people will stop to say hello even if they meet the cleaning staff on the roadside. So you and such a person have no self-esteem at all, fearing that he (she) will look down on you. If you meet someone who looks down on you, you don't have to feel inferior, because others look down on others and must be self-respecting. You can go to a world where there are mountains outside the mountains and children are born outside the people. Who is often the first to come?
Fourth, to cultivate your self-confidence and let others appreciate you, you must first have your own opinions.
1, think of others more, no matter on any occasion. Compassion, care and concern for others. Observe other people's expressions and behaviors, xian county's Qi Qi, and see the evil police themselves. Doing so will make your relationship more harmonious.
2. Second, take part in sports activities. Taking part in more cultural and sports activities will make you feel happy and enhance your self-confidence.
Third, strive to cultivate their own appreciation quality. After a long time, others will thank you for it. You will be more confident. We appreciate each other, and communication will be fun. To cultivate quality, the first thing is to start from an early age.
Fifth, how people learn and talk deeply is not just a superficial topic.
First, learn to affirm others. You always affirm others, and others will think that you know him well and appreciate him very much. What are you waiting for? More topics. Of course, we should learn to appreciate each other. If your eyes are full of each other's faults and you always deny saying anything to each other, then you certainly don't want to think about the rest.
Making friends with others is the most basic. I'll say something irrelevant first, sound out each other's wishes and interests, and then start the topic. If you talk speculatively and then give up, you know very well that it won't hurt you.
If they are talking, he must be in his heart, and then the topic will start, but there are also people who are very hypocritical, dressed like gentlemen, and always make you mean, and he makes you think you are hype. However, after a long time of communication, what kind of person is what kind of person, because people can pretend, I can't pretend. Cultivate some beautiful love, their opinions, others can talk deeply and find friends. Otherwise, others can only say some superficial words of their own views.
Han Fei