The advantages of middle school students' extensive social communication are: first, they can exchange ideas with more people and enhance some knowledge and ability; Second, more people can share their joys and sorrows, encourage progress, just like a mirror, reflecting their own gains and losses; Thirdly, we can overcome psychological barriers and improve our communicative competence in extensive social communication. The fourth is to choose good and follow it, and choose bad and change it. In extensive communication, we can personally experience and sum up experience, learn from their good and change their bad.
One of the most important things is to overcome one's psychological barriers and improve one's communicative competence. According to the survey report of psychological quality of Chinese Academy of Sciences, among middle school students, more than 80% are unsociable, 37% have obvious psychological abnormality, and 2 1% can't communicate with others. Many middle school students enter the university and the society. Because they can't adapt to the complex society, their psychology is seriously distorted and many social problems arise. The key to solve this problem is to actively cultivate middle school students' ability of extensive socialization, make them adapt to society and overcome psychological obstacles in the process of socialization.
However, it should be noted that the extensive socialization we are talking about is not promiscuity, but selective communication. Making friends suitable for middle school students' communication range is in line with this important feature of middle school students.
So to sum up, there are advantages and disadvantages for middle school students to socialize widely, but the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.