As the saying goes: Many friends make the road easier? What a miserable thing it is to have no friends in this society. Since we were born in this world, we began to make friends from babbling. We went to kindergarten, primary school, junior high school, high school and university to make friends with classmates, entered the work to make friends with colleagues, bought a house to make friends with neighbors, went out for a trip and found friends in activities.
Except for the snobbish people, most people make friends for simple purposes, such as being nice, kind, humorous, optimistic, etc., and all of them can make friends who like you, and everyone can have fun together, as if the world has become warm and beautiful.
But there are many friends who are icing on the cake, and there are always too few friends who can help you in a timely manner, which is really too few. Don't believe me, why don't you ask a friend to do you a favor? Why don't you try lending some money to your friends?
some time ago, because some things needed friends' help, it was really easy to lift a finger, so it only took them a few minutes. I am a person who doesn't like to trouble others very much. This time, I really have no choice, and I have prepared a beautiful gift. Inform friends that some people have called or sent WeChat, and friends have responded positively after hearing it:? Ok, no problem! ? However, some friends did it right away, and they did it quickly and beautifully. Some procrastinated and agreed simply, but there was no actual action. Finally, they disappeared and there was no post.
among these friends who didn't help, some helped her move, some lent her money, some helped her deal with complicated things, some helped her organize documents, and some bought many gifts. I once thought that this was my best friend for more than twenty years. However, I was never embarrassed to bother others, and I was grateful for bothering others once. I only asked my friends for help occasionally, and that's all I tested? Fake friends? The face. Why is this world always so unfair to nice people? You help others a lot, but when you ask others to help you once, you will find that some people's friendship can't stand the test.
Look carefully at those friends who are not so thin-skinned and have the nerve to ask you to pay the bill when they go shopping and eat. They still borrow money from you when you have no income from work, wait for you to pay for tickets when you go to tourist attractions, and sprinkle a charm when you go to the cinema to buy popcorn. You buy it! ? Please, everyone is a girl, and I work hard to earn money every day. I spend more than 12 hours in front of the computer every day, and cervical spondylosis always hurts. How can you be ashamed to watch others let you spend your hard-earned money and feel at ease?
I spend money for you, and I take the initiative to pay the bill at dinner because I care about your friend. But the efforts between friends must be equal. You give me Haitang, and I give you peony. This is the correct way to open a friend.
When you help someone, she is friendly, and then you are asked to help more times. You look at her with a big smile and think that friends should help each other. As long as I can, I will help immediately. And when you need help, it's just a small favor. In a blink of an eye, not only those smiling faces are gone, but even people are gone.
I finally understand a sentence: when you want to ask someone for help, it must be the person who has helped you many times to continue to help you, but the person who has helped him many times turns a blind eye to you, which is pathetic. People really experience some things before they grow up, and after several setbacks, they mature. How many times have they seen it? Fake friends? Only when you know that people are warm and cold can you make truly worthy friends.
The next time I meet a friend asking for help, I will still choose to help without hesitation within my power. But if she never helps you and licks her face, she will always ask you for help. Let her go as far as possible!