There are more men than women, so it is understandable that the number of bachelors is increasing. Speaking of bachelors, recently, the county party committee of Luchuan County, Guangxi issued a notice asking all towns to count the number of unmarried young men, mainly young men. As soon as this notice was issued, it caused a lot of heated discussions, and I believe everyone was curious about it. What do you think of this move? After reading some news reports about this notice, Xiao Bian has the following opinions that deserve our consideration. Let's take a look.
First, the main contents of the Notice
Friends who read the news reports about this Notice should know that the county mainly requires township cadres to specifically investigate and count young and middle-aged unmarried men, know the reasons why these people are single, and propose solutions. Therefore, young and middle-aged unmarried men, whether healthy or disabled, should find out the reasons for their unmarried, and finally submit these statistical data to the Luchuan County Party Committee Office.
Second, two questions worth pondering
Even though the release of this Notice has caused many netizens to ridicule, some people said, "Is this a wife?" Some said, "Why only count men and not women?" In fact, no matter how ridiculous it is, it is a fact that there are more men than women, so specific statistics are more conducive to helping these unmarried men get rid of their orders. Xiao Bian believes that they can be considered from two aspects.
1. There are more men than women.
According to the results of the seventh census, the number of men is more than 3 million, but this is the difference between the total number of men and women. If we only calculate the difference between the number of men and women of marriageable age, the number of men is more than 17 million. From this data, the number of men who are single is also quite large.
2. It is rational to count the number of unmarried men
From the data of the fourth census above, we can also know that there are more men than women, which is the general trend of the whole country, not just Luchuan County, Guangxi. Therefore, the Notice issued by Luchuan County this time is a very rational approach in Xiaobian's view, with the aim of finding and solving problems, which is also of great benefit to the balance of population structure in China.
third, why is it difficult for young and middle-aged men in rural areas to marry?
We can learn from the Notice that it is mainly for towns to investigate and count the number of young and middle-aged unmarried men. Xiao Bian thinks that it is mainly unmarried men in our countryside. There is still a big gap between the conditions in rural areas and those in cities, so the advantages of young and middle-aged people in rural areas are not great in any way. The following are several reasons why it is difficult for young and middle-aged men in rural areas to get married according to some situations around them. That is,
1. Many people in rural areas can't afford to buy houses and cars.
As we all know, nowadays, both urban and rural people have higher requirements for getting married, and many women require their husbands to have cars and houses. However, in rural areas, many single men can't afford to buy houses in the city. They only build houses in their hometown, and some women marry if they don't dislike them. However, it is hard for some women to buy cars and houses in the city.
2. High bride price
Bridal price is definitely indispensable, but in some places, the bride price is relatively high. For rural people, the bride price of 1, yuan is high, and some women's brides are even hundreds of thousands, which undoubtedly puts a lot of pressure on men. As we all know, many young people in rural areas are freelancers, so their income is not stable.
3. Marriage fraud becomes a shadow
As we all know, there are many dating apps now, and many young people like to make friends and chat on them. Some of them have gradually developed into lovers, and some of them have actually got married, but there are some unseen shadows behind the beauty. Some rural male friends and netizens have been cheated in marriage, or they have transferred money to each other during the development of lovers' relationship. So this situation also needs attention. Now everyone is busy, so there is less contact with women in reality. Online dating has become the first choice for many men. However, after some people have been cheated, they no longer play these dating software, which is one of the reasons why young and middle-aged men in rural areas are unmarried.
4. Low academic qualifications
Many young and middle-aged unmarried men in rural areas have relatively low academic qualifications, some only have primary school education, some have junior high school education, and some have high school education. In short, in today's society, low academic qualifications will also become a standard for others to choose a spouse, so this is also the reason why many rural men are unmarried.