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A house of my own, with big French windows, a desk, a simple sofa in the living room, a cup of coffee, a bunch of flowers and some books on the table, and the sunshine shone on my face through the gauze. Leisurely, comfortable, I can think of nothing, I can ignore everything, and my eyes seem to be only myself, only freedom.

the life I yearn for most.

it's not lofty, it's what I've always dreamed of. At that moment, I seemed to feel that the air around me was filled with my happy and happy smile.

Yes, this kind of life seems to have no smell of oil smoke, no crying of children, no intrigue on TV, and no so-called sophistication.

I'm the only one left, which is great.

each of us has a life and our own way. I may not be the most gregarious one. I don't have many friends. Maybe I just want to follow my heart and simply be myself.

When I was in college, I often went to the library alone, ran alone, sometimes ate alone, and I also had friends. Sometimes when they had something to do, I would be alone.

Because I know that I should be friends with myself at all times.

I often go shopping alone when I am far away from home. From being unfamiliar with the city to being mentioned by others, I will know clearly where the coordinates are. I will also slowly walk alone in the street, go in and look around when I meet a favorite shop, and talk to the boss more when I meet a restaurant that suits my appetite.

when I have children, I often go shopping with my daughter, just the two of us, which is not bad.

In fact, life is full of scenery. Sometimes when I sit in the park, I will look at all kinds of passers-by, think a lot and set different plots.

yes, sometimes others don't understand, but of course they don't need other people's approval.

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My good friend Ling works in the hospital. She said that she has been working for almost eight years, and she has never walked the street with any of her colleagues. Of course, she got along well when she worked in the hospital.

She said that she was just used to it. She was in a hurry to go home from work. She bought almost everything online. She wanted to watch a movie with her husband in her spare time and go out for a walk.

In fact, she knows exactly what kind of life she wants. She is very self-centered. She never wears makeup and is almost plain. She said that she doesn't like the feeling of makeup, but just wants to be pure and simple.

none of us have the right to criticize other people's lives.

Sometimes I really want to cater to others. I feel that I want to do everything, and I want everyone to recognize me. But now I find it too difficult.

I have been in this city for several years, but I still haven't made so-called bosom friends. My husband always says that my ability to make friends is too poor.

It's not that I don't want to find a bosom friend. It's that I seem to be too self-centered. If I don't like other people's practices, I will keep my distance.

I have a bosom friend, an old friend who has known me for a long time. In life, a bosom friend is enough.

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In fact, sometimes it's good to get used to it. If you are used to enjoying life alone and walking at your own pace, you can do whatever you want.

I am always half a beat slower than others. Sometimes I prefer to do things according to my own temperament, but I am always afraid of offending people when dealing with people.

obviously, I do a lot at work, but I always get ignored because I can't kiss up to others, so I just want to get over it. Otherwise, you have to be angry with yourself, hehe.

On the contrary, I have always been in a forbearing attitude when dealing with my mother-in-law. I don't like what my mother-in-law said, and I never refute it. I always think that she is an elder and I am a junior, so I should respect her. I have been married for six years, but I have never quarreled with my mother-in-law. I always feel that I am too humble. Now that I think about it, everything is right and wrong, and silence or silence will only be wrong.

sometimes, it's not silence, but feeling unnecessary.

Maybe this is growth. I am used to being strong alone and crying silently behind my back.

I hope I can live every day as I please. That's good.