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Limit on the number of friends
[Debate]: Thank you, Chairman, dear judges, teachers and students, hello everyone! After listening to the argument, I can't help worrying: First, extensive social interaction needs a lot of time and energy, but as a middle school student, the main time and energy are in the study of systematic knowledge, and I am busy socializing all day. Do you still have time and energy to study? Second, in terms of students' economic conditions, social interaction requires certain financial resources. For students who have little financial resources, who will pay for our extensive social activities? Thirdly, it is beneficial for middle school students to participate in social interaction properly without affecting their studies. But as the saying goes, "too much is too late"! Is it appropriate for middle school students with heavy learning tasks to be widely socialized? We think there are advantages and disadvantages for middle school students to socialize widely, but generally speaking, the disadvantages outweigh the advantages. First of all, as a student, the main task at present is to learn knowledge, shape character, temper will and cultivate moral character. Learning is our bounden duty. If we spend too much time and energy on socializing, wouldn't it be putting the cart before the horse? Secondly, psychologically, we are still in the psychological weaning period of middle school. We long for independence, but we can't get rid of our dependence on our parents. In the past, I wanted to open myself up and communicate with others, but I hesitated and closed myself. I have a certain sense of self-discipline, but I am impulsive and reckless. In the face of complicated social groups, confusing interpersonal relationships and unpredictable ways of the world, how can we ensure that we don't get lost in extensive social exchanges? In reality, we fall into a wrong path because of careless friends, which makes us victims of criminal activities. Can't we be alert? Third, middle school students are in a critical period when their world outlook, values and outlook on life are mature. For the immature middle school students, it is difficult to guarantee that they will not be influenced by the society. In this materialistic era, money worship and hedonism make it difficult for many adults, not to mention middle school students who are inexperienced. Middle school students frequently associate with people in society, which not only affects their study, but also consumes too much energy and time, and even lays a hidden danger for themselves to establish a correct world outlook and values. The result is not worth the candle! Therefore, we think that the extensive social communication of middle school students does more harm than good! [Second debate]: Thank you, Chairman, dear judges, teachers and students, hello! Other students repeatedly emphasized the social benefits of middle school students, but never paid attention to the word "extensive" in today's debate. What is "extensive"? According to China Ancient Chinese Dictionary, it means a wide range and a wide region. Is there a wide social range after school every day? Chatting with teachers and classmates is a wide range of social interaction? Don't "friends and friends" belong to a wide range of social contacts? In view of the characteristics of middle school students themselves, we think that middle school students are prone to the following disadvantages when they socialize widely: First, middle school students are students first, and as students, the most important thing is to study. Although social practice is also a kind of learning, the most basic thing in middle school is the accumulation of classroom knowledge. The cultivation and improvement of various abilities are also based on knowledge accumulation. If you spend too much time and energy on extensive social communication and neglect the accumulation of basic knowledge, you will break the foundation of various abilities and knowledge. Without foundation, ability training will become water without a source and a tree without a foundation, and the expected effect will not be achieved. Second, middle school students are in their youth, and they are easy to accept new things and new ideas. However, due to the lack of experience in social life, their thoughts are immature, their feelings are impulsive, and they tend to look at problems one-sidedly and go to extremes, which is inevitable in making friends. It is the immaturity of middle school students that is used by criminals in society to make friends with them, thus inducing middle school students to engage in illegal and criminal activities and finally going to the point of no return. In recent years, the crime rate of middle school students is on the rise. According to the newspaper, 85% of teenagers commit crimes because of careless friends, and 74% are girls. In the face of such amazing figures, do other students still say that the advantages of extensive social interaction outweigh the disadvantages? Third, the ancients used to say, "extremes must be reversed", and everything should not be overdone. Moderate participation in social communication is conducive to cultivating middle school students' communicative competence and adapting to social development, but extensive social communication will make them too busy to take care of others and have no intention to study, which will seriously affect their studies. How can such a result outweigh the disadvantages? To sum up, we believe that the extensive social communication of middle school students does more harm than good. [Three Debates]: Thank you, Chairman, dear judges, teachers and students, hello everyone! Another student has just painted a beautiful picture of extensive social interaction for us. We don't agree with this. First of all, I'd like to point out some mistakes made by other students: 1, one leaf can't see Mount Tai. Other students only see the benefits of extensive social communication, but ignore the problems and disadvantages of middle school students as the main body in extensive social communication. 2. Li froze and changed his mind. Another student understands extensive social communication as moderate and selective communication, but does not distinguish whether friends are evil or kind. We think that middle school students' participation in social interaction has advantages and disadvantages. Moderate participation in social interaction will help us exchange ideas, increase our knowledge and cultivate our ability. However, extensive participation in social interaction is not in line with the actual situation of middle school students, nor can it fundamentally achieve the purpose of exercising ability, but it will be counterproductive. There are three reasons: first, from the actual life of middle school students, we go to school at eight o'clock every morning and go home at five o'clock in the afternoon. When we get back, we should do our homework for at least two hours, including eating and resting. Where can I have more time to socialize widely? If we spend all our homework and rest time socializing, it will directly affect the completion of our learning tasks. In addition, extensive social communication also means extensive communication, which will directly lead to our lack of communication depth and understanding of people. Under such circumstances, how to distinguish good friends from bad friends, clear the fog and see people's character clearly? Second, the environment in which middle school students live determines that their social communication scope is mainly in schools and families, and their communication objects are mainly teachers, classmates and parents. And extensive social communication requires middle school students to go out of campus, expand the object of communication to the society and conduct extensive social communication. So how to ensure that students can not only complete their learning tasks at school, but also participate in social interaction extensively? The only choice is to reduce school hours, but isn't this sesame seed and watermelon? Third, people's energy is always limited, and middle school students are also people. Other students won't object to it, will they? To achieve extensive socialization, a lot of energy and time must be invested, which will inevitably reduce the energy invested in learning. Without the guarantee of time and energy, the effect of learning will definitely be affected. Let's take this debate as an example. We can also regard it as a kind of social interaction, although it is not extensive. Didn't you invest time and energy in your classmates? Don't you think it's a headache to deal with this short-term argument and study contradiction? What's more, what we have to deal with is the long-term contradiction between extensive social interaction and study. Therefore, we believe that as a middle school student, extensive social interaction does more harm than good. First, the so-called "wide", in the "China Ancient Chinese Dictionary" refers to a large range and a wide region. Is the opponent's "three religions and nine streams" also within this range? Lenin, the great revolutionary teacher, once said "study, study and study again", but never said "socialize and socialize again"! Peng, an all-round mathematician, gave a speech on "Life is a process of constant struggle" in the last 20 days, but why didn't he say "Life is a process of constant social interaction"? Secondly, college students should also deal with society while socializing widely. Modern society is complex and interpersonal relationships are more complex. Where there is sunshine, there will be shadows. College students are psychologically and physically immature and have no social experience. How to look at some things with immature eyes when you are young? Criminals in society just use the immaturity of college students to make friends with them, thus inducing them to commit crimes and making them regret it. What a pity! In recent years, the crime rate of college students has been rising. In 2002, it was reported that 85% of teenagers committed crimes because of careless friends, and 74% of them were girls. Such amazing figures will not make us sigh where the mother's good child is. Where are the pillars of the country? Third, from the materialistic point of view, there must be a limit to everything, otherwise you will suffer enough. Chemistry tells us that hydrogen can't be friends with air indefinitely, and mathematics tells us that a certain series also has this limit. Life tells us that there must be a limit to social interaction. Liu Qing said that although the road of life is very long, it is often only a few steps. When it is tight, it is often when people are young. To sum up, it fully proves our view that college students' extensive social communication does more harm than good. Thank you. Example: Xiao Wei (pseudonym) and other five students from a middle school in Dunhua returned to school after getting drunk and vomited in the school toilet. When the teacher found out, he mistakenly thought they were ill. Only after investigation did he know that several students had drunk. Among them, Xiao Wei returned to the class after being criticized by the vice principal, and took out a long knife and cut it at the vice principal. Xiao Wei is a junior one student in a middle school. He doesn't like studying at ordinary times and often plays truant with several boys in his class.