1, sometimes I don't feel loved.
I have been complaining about the Chinese set meal with a per capita income of more than 20 during the date, saying that the canteen is actually not bad, and it is still so expensive. I regret being with him with a frown and disgust at that moment.
2. Be careful in everything.
We should not only avoid using his money, but also take care of his self-esteem. I certainly can't make him pay for what I want. If you go out to eat, you can't choose expensive ones, and you have to let him pay the bill for fear of his inner frustration, but I buy movie tickets or group purchases because it won't hurt my self-esteem like cash settlement.
3, often need to enlighten him.
Poor students still have to ask their classmates to pay the bill. On the surface, they won't say anything in private that will upset them. At this time, as the best person to talk to, they can only listen to his narrow views.
4, tired, too hard.
At first, I didn't care at all. I thought being poor was nothing. After a long time, I found that it was not just an economic problem. When the gap between their economic strength is too large (the gap between their family backgrounds is slightly large), many practices that I thought had taken care of his emotions (such as a dinner for 20 people per capita) still felt unworthy. Not to mention the damage he did when he was in a coma. It's really tiring to restrain his character for a long time.
I will regret it after the love period.
It's not that I don't want to work hard with the other half, mainly because I can't accept the gap between values and personality. I am the kind of person who is willing to spend 70 yuan for only 100 yuan. He must spend 10 yuan, and will remember it for a long time. I can understand his cautious approach to his future life, but it's a little annoying to restrain me in this way.
I don't feel respected.
If boys want to take care of their wallets and have strong self-esteem, girls' self-esteem will easily be put behind. Being brave in front of my friends, being careless in front of me, being macho in front of me and other behaviors sometimes make me feel quite depressed.
7. Breaking up is very unpleasant.
He should worry about his self-esteem. He deliberately said vague words in front of his friends, which made people misunderstand that I was cheating. There were rumors at that time, and he threatened me not to break up or not to say it for two years. I think I am disgusted with his poor conditions, which is really chilling.