It can be seen that this is a common problem among young people.
At this stage, both men and women will be influenced by their own changes and external environment, and gradually form and improve their world outlook, outlook on life and values, and they will face some competitive pressures in their studies and work, which will inevitably lead to compulsive thinking. I have to admit that when I recommend and deal with some problems, I see that a lot of pain comes from the word "emotion".
you should first find out what is like and what is true love.
① Love has more illusions; Like is not aroused by the fantasy of others, but by the realistic evaluation of others; Love is not as fanatical, intense and urgent as love, but always stable, quiet and objective.
② Love is associated with many conflicting emotions; Like is a simple emotional experience.
③ Love is often related to sexual desire; And liking does not involve this need.
④ Love has exclusivity and exclusivity, while liking it does not.
⑤ Love is actually very ordinary, and it is great. Ordinary love is when you know that he (she) is not the person you admire and understand that he (she) has various shortcomings, but you still choose him (her), and you don't abandon him (her) or deny him (her) because of his (her) shortcomings.
⑥ love is deep love, and love is shallow love.
Men and women actually have many differences in the values of love. Men will attach importance to the dual feelings of body and spirit, while women prefer the feeling of being chased by many men.
as the ancients said, men chase after women, and mountains separate them; Women chasing men, interlayer yarn.
to put it bluntly, love should be ordinary, but it has been blended with too many materials and other elements by contemporary people. It makes people breathless, and it is even more difficult to tell the truth from the false.
I've experienced a lot, so it's good to understand it naturally. Let bygones be bygones!
Everything you did was your own choice. Looking back, there is no absolute right or wrong!
Again: live with a grateful heart, which is a gift from nature!
----------------------------------northern lights.