What is neglected is often the most important. Sunday, April 20, 2008 17:58 Life journey, running around everywhere, in the endless pursuit, what is deeply remembered in your heart and mine? The glory of success, or the frustration of failure ... What have we inadvertently overlooked? Is it the silver thread on my mother's sideburns, or the river where I settled on my father's forehead, or the teacher's meaningful eyes. There is one thing that has been deeply imprinted in my memory, reminding me all the time. It was my brother's birthday and mine. My second aunt ordered us a big cake early in the morning. In the evening, we cheerfully gathered many former partners to share this happiness. My brother takes care of the guests and I divide the cake. After everything was over, everyone rushed to the playground happily with cakes, skating, making cakes and posing in ......................................................................................................................... But what we didn't know was that my second aunt, who was studying by herself last night, was also very depressed at this time. In the dead of night, when the hustle and bustle of the campus is replaced by silence, only naughty stars and warm moons are tirelessly whispering in the air. I also washed away the cream and excitement and got ready for bed. I plan to start my journey at the age of 0/4 in a beautiful dream. My second aunt walked into the bedroom with a dignified look, stopped me and said, "Don't sleep yet, I want to talk to you." After hearing what she said, I immediately greeted her with a clever sentence: "Stop it, I know what you are going to say. You must bless me and make new demands and hopes for me. " Say that finish, don't forget to make a face with her. My second aunt's expression became more serious when she saw me like this. Seeing this, I also put away my disdain just now and waited for her to "hold a struggle meeting." "Son, starting today, you will be a boy of 14 years old. I just want to tell you, that is, don't inadvertently ignore the important people in your life, and don't ignore the important things in your life. Sometimes, what you ignore is often the most important. " After hearing this, I was puzzled, lying in bed, and that sentence kept rolling in my mind, which was often the most important. Why did my second aunt say this to me today, but chose it on my birthday night? Suddenly, a disappointed look flashed through my mind, and a figure who left silently reappeared in front of my eyes. Oh, I see, I know, I made a mistake today, and it's not an ordinary mistake, because I neglected the important people in my life, and they were deeply hurt because of my neglect. I didn't leave any friends behind when I handed out the cake. I thought about which flowers to send to whom and how to distribute them equally. But I just left my second aunt and uncle behind. They have been planning for us, lighting candles, blowing out candles and singing birthday songs. Every link is not without omission, but I left them out when dividing the cake. Even if I didn't finish the cake in the end, I seemed to be assigning tasks. I didn't sleep tonight. What is neglected is often the most important. Yes, looking back on my performance in recent years, I found that because of my playfulness, willfulness and carelessness, I neglected people and things that seemed unimportant to me. When I first came to Sichuan, because I was a stranger, the most anticipated thing every week was to call my parents on weekends and listen to the familiar local accent, which was my favorite at that time. Now, I am completely from Sichuan. I not only have friends here, but also fully integrate into my second aunt's life. Gradually, the weekly hotline was omitted by me, for the simple reason that I was busy studying and it cost money to make a phone call. My second aunt asked me to call my mother several times, so I made a perfunctory phone call. I hung up the phone in two minutes because my mother's voice upset me. At this time, I burst into tears when I thought of my parents in Inner Mongolia. Think about it, they remember my birthday better than their own, but I don't know their birthday. Every year, they take time out of their busy schedules, work hard in the fields for the first half of the year, and come all the way to Sichuan to see me. Every time they come, they bring a few bags of my favorite hometown specialties. I go home empty-handed and have no idea what to buy for them. They have countless hobbies and tastes for me, but I can't even tell how old they are this year ... Last time I heard my grandmother say that my mother's hair was much whiter. I was puzzled at that time, but soon that faint disappointment was washed away by other things. ..... too many friends, have you neglected like me? Family, friendship, study, life ... too much, we can't ignore it, because neglect means harm. Then how can we be perfect, sparse and not leaking, and let the word neglect join the memory team? The best way is: always remind yourself to think twice before you act. What is neglected is often the most important thing in life. We often overlook many important things. It is precisely because we ignore these small problems that we think are small but affect our lives. -Everyone has heard the story of carving horseshoe nails! This is the historical fact that Charles III of England abdicated. He was defeated in the Battle of Boval in 1485. Shakespeare's famous sentence: horse, horse, one horse loses the country! At that time, he was ready to fight to the death. The army led by Henry, Earl of Richmond, is coming, and the battle will decide who will rule England. That morning, Charlie sent a groom to prepare his favorite war horse. However, when the blacksmith smashed the fourth horseshoe nail, he found that two nails were missing, but because of the emergency at that time, the groom decided to nail two horseshoe nails less. The two armies met, and King Charles was in the army. Inspire soldiers to fight. When the battle was fierce, a horseshoe fell off and the horse fell to the ground. Before the king grasped the reins, the frightened livestock jumped up and ran away. Charlie looked around. His soldiers retreated and Henry's army surrounded him. He waved his sword in the air: horse! He shouted: "A horse, my country was overturned because of a horse." It was because of the negligence of the groom and the blacksmith that their country was overturned. What a small thing. It is precisely because they ignore such a small horseshoe nail that we often say that what is ignored is often the most important. A few years ago, Germany manned the space shuttle because of a small calculation error by scientists, because of a decimal point error. However, because of this small decimal point, an astronaut died like this, and a young life fell in the universe, and his body could never be found. So we often say that what is neglected is often the most important. These examples can be linked to myself because of my carelessness. When doing geometry proof problems, I often miss one or two steps that I think are not important. But these steps are often the key to prove the problem. Without them, the problem is incomplete. Therefore, I often lose points in several questions, because I can do it and lack key steps. What a pity! So we often say that what is neglected is often the most important. There are many examples in our daily life to prove that what we often ignore is actually the most important thing. For example, some businessmen have mixed in some false things in order to make greater profits for themselves. They neglected honesty. When they often come to the industrial and commercial authorities for inspection, their things will be confiscated. At that time, they will regret it. If they know today, why do they want to know? Therefore, we should not ignore the trivial things in life. In fact, it still has a great effect on you. What we should really ignore are those things that are harmful to our physical and mental development. Only in this way can we grow up healthily. So I said: learn to ignore things that you really don't need to master, and don't ignore things that you think are unimportant, because they are often the most important things. Neglect is often the most important. Sometimes it may not be important to you, but sometimes it is ignored and you will regret it. It was a Sunday morning and my grandfather went back to his hometown to do business. I went to my grandmother's house and she said she was not feeling well. I asked her if she wanted to go to the hospital or buy some medicine. She said, "No, just lie down for a while." So I didn't take it seriously. I went out to play with my friends. At noon, I go back to my grandmother's house for dinner. It turned out that there was only one and a half steamed buns and a dish on the table. When I looked at all the rice on the table, I blamed my grandmother. Later, grandma cooked me other meals. After eating, I went out to play with my friends. In this way, the day passed. Go back to your home at night and prepare for school tomorrow. The next day after school, I came home and found that only my aunt in the shop was at home. I put down my schoolbag and went upstairs to watch TV. Before long, my father came back. As usual, I asked, "Why are you going?" Dad said, "You are having an operation in the hospital, so you have to go home and get something. Stop watching TV and do your homework quickly. " I left in a hurry. I sat there, thinking about Sunday. Because of my negligence, grandma went to the hospital for an operation. Later, grandma couldn't move or talk on one side of her body. Since then, she has visited her grandmother almost every weekend for more than a year. One day after school, my mother came to meet me at the school gate. I still find it strange. She won't pick me up on rainy and snowy days. What happened today? When I got on the bus with questions, my mother told me seriously: "Grandma died." I can't believe I saw grandma lying in bed and smiling at me at the weekend. How could she die? When the bus arrived at the door, I saw that the wreath at the door was full. After entering the room, I knocked my head three times in front of grandma's body. In the process, I cried. I can't believe and I don't want to believe that my grandmother just left. That night, I hid in my room and thought, why didn't I take my grandmother to the hospital that Sunday? It's hard to sleep all night. This feeling is only once in my 16 years. I can't control my thoughts in my mind. Because of that negligence, my grandmother left me forever. I regret this oversight. This is the first negligence that I will remember all my life. I don't think this neglect will ever happen. Remember, what is neglected is often the most important!