First of all, your question is "My boyfriend likes to play social software. Should I break up? " ? But after reading what you said, people will think that what you have to think about is not whether you can accept each other playing social software, but whether you can establish a stable trust relationship between you.

From your point of view, it is not difficult to see that you are a person who is single-minded about feelings and requires the other person to be single-minded about feelings. So you can't accept that it's okay for the other person to have sex with other members of the opposite sex in the process of interacting with you. But from your point of view, your other half really has an ambiguous relationship with other members of the opposite sex at least verbally or ideologically through virtual social software. Otherwise, she wouldn't be given a 13. 14 yuan red envelope with special significance. Presumably this is the most unacceptable key question for you.

From his point of view, in fact, from his behavior of hiding and apologizing to you, even if he has a good impression on other opposite sex, he doesn't want to be separated from you. In other words, in his world, your position is above other members of the opposite sex. Otherwise, he won't apologize to you, he will just ignore your feelings. So you still have a certain position in his heart, which is beyond doubt. Besides, as you said, your relationship lasted for seven years.

From the perspective of the two of you, the reason why he did this kind of behavior and didn't put all his energy on you shows that you didn't meet his needs in all directions. Otherwise, he won't be interested in other heterosexuals. Of course, it is also possible that he is not satisfied with you and starts looking for someone who is more suitable for him. So, if you want to break up with him, you should consider the following three aspects:

First, can you accept that your other half has a moderate affair with the opposite sex except you? This is the root of the problem.

Second, after you take a stand, can he really get rid of chatting or even ambiguous behavior with other members of the opposite sex? In the process of his change, can you improve yourself and establish a deeper love relationship with him so that he can devote himself wholeheartedly to you? Can you do it?

Third, finally, you should make it clear whether you can trust him completely in your later life. Will get suspicious and check his information. Because if you can't trust it completely, You will form a nervous state, and you will always suspect that your partner is betraying yourself, thus leading a very hard life. Of course, this may be caused by his behavior that makes you distrust, and some of it may be that you dare not trust others easily. Even if you change your partner and find him chatting with other members of the opposite sex, you may think twice.

So, you have to face up to your heart first. See if we can give each other some space. Let yourself gain more confidence in this relationship. At the same time, you should consider each other's loyalty to you. Whether the degree of concern for you can meet your expectations. On the basis of considering these questions, I believe you can find the most suitable answer for yourself.